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I am a sapiosexual sadist Iranian-American Domme, looking for adventures, partners, and playmates, and with over two decades of experience in kinky scenes. I am looking for service housegirls and houseboys to serve Me, masochists to play with, and an emotionally mature, intelligent, well-educated, and kinky partner who's willing to accept Me and zillions of My hobbies, interests, and "toys" as a full package!
The ideal scenario would be a FemDom household in which My partner and I would look absolutely vanilla in the eyes of the outside world. Still, behind the closed doors, everyone, including My partner and other housegirls and houseboys, is out there to serve and please Me.
I am an attractive, emotionally mature, stable working professional in My 3rd gradschool program and love My job(s). So I'm not here because I'm incapable of building a relationship or looking to gain some extra money (I respect pro Dommes, but I'm not a one and don't want to be one either)... I'm an independent, educated, and professional woman (and somehow a workaholic), looking for more fun and whatever makes me comfortable and brings peace to my inner self. (I'm living with the black dog who is under control most of the time, if you know what I mean)
I believe in the BDSM lifestyle as a relationship, more than just a sexual experience. Someone once told Me the biggest sexual organ in the body *IS* the mind (and yes, I know the difference between mind and brain; organ and part). I believe in it. Intelligence is always a primary source of attraction for Me and is a must in My relationships and friendships, rather than a good body shape per se (or conversely a dick size!). As I said, I am well-educated and handling a professional life, so I prefer My play partners to be the same. That includes My primary partner, My masochist play partners, service submissives, housegirls, and houseboys. That doesn't mean I ignore the bodies, though! Be in good shape (or in track or getting there) if you're contacting Me!
Regarding service submissives, housegirls, houseboys, pets, or slaves, I like to accept candidates who are good servants capable of pampering and pleasing their Goddess (and possibly her primary partner if I see fit). I prefer ones who like to please me in non-sexual ways, preferably locked in chastity and naked. The keys are total devotion, good communication, transparency, and handling a meaningful conversation. Beyond that, leveling up in My household would be up to My decision... It means you, later on, might be promoted to a pain slut or just stay as My puppet toy!
I also love traveling. I have traveled extensively around the US and the world. It would be fine to travel sometimes to closer cities, seeking fun. Yet it's just about sometimes and not more than that. I don't like long-distance relationships or plays. They just don't work for Me. I prefer a sub who comes to Me, pampers Me, and goes away!
Besides BDSM, I am interested in different art subjects, traveling (as said), politics, history, psychology, social sciences, reading a variety of books, following the stock market, entrepreneurship, listening to a zillion podcasts, dancing, singing, hanging out with friends, and so on. (All that said, I consider Myself an introvert!!! Go figure! Lol).
I don't mind meeting new people and friends (although I'm already at a life stage where I have a solid circle of wonderful friends, kinky and otherwise — so finding friends is not My primary goal here). Though if you are entertaining the idea of becoming My primary partner, you MUST be a reader. And capable of handling a conversation. I don't know how else I can emphasize this. I'm a sapiosexual before being a sadist. And both, before being a Domme. I enjoy quality Me-time way more than spending My time in the company of a server who hasn't tried to live outside their bubble for once.
PS 1. I don't play or start a relationship with anyone already in another relationship. I don't enjoy sharing My own "properties". ENM is totally cool for many, but not for My subs.
Having said that, I reserve the right to have multiple subs/slaves for Myself, yet I'd say I'm open to negotiating it, after the trust is built.
PS 2. I am somewhere between being libertarian and liberal. And I am from Iran. So far, I cannot name anything that attracts Me to Trump and his supporters. So well, if you do not know any other way to start a conversation, but by arguing politics in My opposition, then, well, just do not communicate with Me in the first place. I am fed up with the Trump era's policies, bans, and random decisions against Iranians. As much as I am frustrated with (and hurt by) the Iranian regime, I do not need to prove how terrible it has been for many of us (immigrants) during his presidencies. you are entitled to enjoy your views, but just do not start attacking others randomly! Particularly on a platform like this!!!
PS 3. From time to time, I might stop responding or just feel like not replying at all. Usually, it is temporary, and I am terribly busy (or engaged with a black dog). Or, most probably, I become unresponsive to prevent further hope, attachment, and/or distraction when I don't see any future for the communication.
That being said, I try to avoid subs who are not responsive or very slow in communication. I've had enough bad experiences with this type to learn it's hard to trust them. I understand that a total devotion can be scary, especially for someone who has worked hard to build a successful life. Yet that doesn't grant you the right to use other people as a temporary "fix" to your needs and then show cold feet and/or disappear when your needs are met. Have some dignity.
PS 4. Oh, come on! Stop fetishizing any exotic person or situation you see!!! Not every Middle Eastern person is Muslim, and I, for one, have a hard limit on religious play! I find it very offensive when you, without even reading my profile or putting the time to get to know me, assume I can play the role of a Muslim woman with a scarf and hejab, torturing and enslaving you!!! Some of you guys are pieces of "art"!!!
PS 5. This is the important one. I understand that submission is hard. I understand it might drag you to the edges of emotional breakdown (Or even push you beyond it). I understand that you've worked hard to build who and what you are, and passing/sharing all (much) of you, your identity, and all the things you've built and value to someone else requires LOTS of trust. I also understand that you may experience layers of personal conflict. But none of these, absolutely NONE of them, grants you the right to ghost others when you feel like you can't continue anymore. Try to be honest about your feelings. Even try sharing them with the person you feel the urge to avoid... You can't imagine how far it can go...
PS 6. I rent out My basement to potential sub(s)! It's time to turn My basement into the dungeon it always needed to be :D
Let Me know if you're interested.
PS 7. Feel free to message me. Don't wait for me to initiate the conversation...
PS 8. Contact me in Fetlife which I check more often than here. N_Goddess. |
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