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Things to know about me:
- I have been learning and studying about BDSM and Poly lifstyles for the better part of 10 years, but a bit less in practical experience. The way that I see polyamoury is as a part of a spectrum. The overall is non-monogamy/multiple relationships. At one end of the line is polyamoury (which is all about loving relationships) and at the other is swinging (which is all about the sex). I don't have a problem with either, but I have come to realize that I am in the middle of the continuum. In an open relationship. Relationships mean something to me, but so does the sex. I also identify as a Dominant, but am far from a Master. I believe a Master has to be a master of himself first, and is not a title one simply assumes. I'll let you know if I ever get there smile I am happy where I am for now
- I have been married since March 2008 and together since March 2005. She is an emerging dominant, so we don't usually play together in that fashion. We CAN be a team, but so far, most folks we meet don't seem to want to be dominated by a couple. Just works out that way. We try new things now and then, but we are just too equal in other parts of our life to support a D/s relationship. I am proud of her and all she has accomplished. If you'd like to talk to her, she is SaphireDragon80 on here.
- I am father to 3 kids. None are mine by biology but they are still my kids. Being children, I won't go in to a lot of detail about them here. They visit their father on some weekends, and while we choose not to hide the way we live from them, we don't go out of our way to expose them to it either.
- I am a self described geek and nerd, tho in both cases I know enough to get me into interesting conversations and maybe a touch more. I enjoy reading and games. Don't watch as much tv as I used to, but still enjoy lots of movies and a few series that I can get on my computer. I love Sci-Fi, Fantasy, and Horror. Now, when I say horror I mean scary stuff not slasher flicks. There is a difference. Slashers are sometimes scary and sometimes not. I play rpgs, board games, card games, video games and just about anything else you can think of.
- I am open about my lifestyle and beliefs to anyone, but I understand the need for discretion. I don't have a job that is critical of such things (retail store merchandising), but my wife is working towards a degree in working with kids. I am currently working on a computer repair certificate and want to go back and get a full degree in it and in electronics.
These are just the dry facts, tho. To get to know me, your best bet is to talk to me.
In a thread I was recently reading, it was pointed out that writing what you want is good (I'll get to that in a minute) but writing out what you have to offer is more important that that. What I feel I have to offer is compassion, understanding and wisdom. I am dominant, but in a teddy bear fashion. I am protective. I am not a macho domineering type, not that it is bad, just not me. I am learning and I am teaching. I am NOT a sugar daddy, but if you need and I have, I give. There is always space to crash, a shoulder to lean on, and something for dinner. I am finding that what I feel is a good match to a Daddy Dominant.
As to what I am looking for, well, I am really open to anything. I have always dreamed of having someone involved enough in my life to add a body to the household. Add to the family. As I learn more about things (myself included) I find that 'adding to the family' is very apt and appealing. I would love to find a babygirl. But I am happy to add someone to my life (and be added to theirs) in any capacity. My wife and I aren't looking for a sister-wife or the elusive HBB. No unicorns here. Her relationships and mine are separate when it comes to the bedroom, although we are open to trying almost anything once.
As for the type of relationship, I have been told that I have a Daddy or TeddyBear type of temperament. Which fits me fine, as that is pretty much what I enjoy. I enjoy the rough stuff now and again (okay, maybe a bit more than that...) but I always love to go back to cuddling and caring and maybe a bit of spoiling. As the days and months move by, I DO find myself becoming a bit more intrigued by the idea of just having a sub to use as I please. I am not into abuse (verbal or physical) tho I think I could be persuaded to at least investigate this.
So, if you see anything you like or have any questions, please feel free to shoot me a message. I am here to make friends above all else. |
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