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I may be coming home, I just don't know yet. As I learn more about this philosophy, my previous ignorance explains so many things. I always thought being a Dom meant being a bully or abusive, and I don't have that in me. I have always been more of a "not until you give me permission, and then be careful what you asked for" kind of guy. And from what little I know, that seems to be the essence of being a Dom. Or at least the kind of Dom I am interested in being. There seem to be many variations and different strokes, all using the same descriptive title.
There also seem to be all levels of this, from 24x7 full immersion "lifestyle" to "a little weekend sauce on a vanilla week". The latter attracts me more, even if the vanilla and the sauce are with the same person. I don't want or expect her to clean my house, I do expect her to let go of personal boundaries for her own good and mine. And I see that this is part of this philosophy for some, whcih was a totally unexpected revelation.
As I change my perspective, I see so many opportunities. It shouldn't surprise me, because that is how life is, with endless opportunities. Many people think there is only one choice until they are shown a thousand. Others see a thousand choices and are overwhelmed. Two different problems, different solutions, same goal to find THE WAY. If this posting gets your serious attention, for a relationship I seek a female sub, any age, any color, straight, bi, okay. You may have to make an unfamiliar first step to clearly get my attention. But you will find me deserving of trust in a way you may have never known. Please no game-players, no "bad only to be punished". Being stuck in one spot is boring. If growth terrifies you, we are not a good match. |
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