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Who I am and What I Bring to the Table:
- Smart, funny, stubborn as hell and always in charge
- Lifelong learner, occasional knitter of socks, hats, and Dr. Who scarves, and avid reader
- Far kinkier than I appear, with a wide range of kinky interests and skills
- A technology geek, a science geek, a word geek (but not a comic book or gaming geek)
- A digital native, a (nature) photographer, an introvert who plays the role of an extrovert rather convincingly
- A creative mind (be careful what you wish for)
- Acceptance of all and unwavering devotion to those close to me
- A rational and thoughtful approach to D/s and life
- A sense of humor that is closer to a British sensibility (think Monty Python) and rather heavy on word play and puns.
- Entirely more sadistic than I appear at first glance - never judge a book by its cover nor a woman by her sensible clothes and haircut.
- Rope? Hell, yes. I'm always the one who does the tying, don't expect otherwise.
- An educator and leader in both the vanilla world and the kink community.
Currently: enjoying a wonderful partnership with a man who embraces wholeheartedly my polyamorous nature and is blossoming into a wonderful masochist and devoted submissive.
My partner is openly bisexual (but 100% submissive) and we are seeking to expand our polycule with the right individual. The chemistry and compatibility would need to be just right, so we fully recognize this is a long shot.
I am also open to discussing other forms of service, from bottoming to cleaning.
I'm always open to friends but will not accept friend requests from strangers - please make an effort to get to know me and chat a bit first before offering friendship.
My Approach to D/s:
The inherent energy exchange in a D/s dynamic is deeply arousing and attractive to me. Despite being a reaction junkie to my core, I seek deeper connections than most casual play opportunities offer. Above all, I seek someone who resonates with my dominant energy, someone who chooses to submit to me after careful and thoughtful deliberation (not just because of my "role" up there at there at the top).
While there is certainly a sadistic side to me, it is not always immediately apparent. I lean more toward psychological control and sensual domination. I love to have protocols in place when in public that the average person would not think twice about - from him walking half a pace behind me to me ordering his food at a restaurant. Subtle things that don't draw attention to what is essentially a very private (albeit extremely powerful) dynamic.
But sometimes inflicting pain on a consenting person is just fucking hot.
Submissive does not equal "less". D/s is about an exchange of energy; a deliberate and consensual power imbalance. It's about clearly defined roles both in and out of the bedroom. Shared kinks are good but so is growing and learning about new ones together. Kink is what helps reinforce and amplify the nature of a D/s relationship.
Still reading? Fantastic! Here's what will let me know you've taken the time to actually read my profile. I prefer to be addressed as Ma'am, not Miss. I can guarantee you that if you use Miss in your message to me, I will ignore it.
A polite message, with proper grammar and spelling, that indicates you've read my profile and are worth my time, will get a polite response. Most other messages will be summarily dismissed. Simply saying, "Hi, how are you? I live near you." will most decidedly NOT get my attention.
Want to know more about my kinks and what turns me on? Join the more than 1500 perverts who follow my tumblr:
geekdomme dot tumblr dot com
Better yet, find me on FetLife (same name as here) and say hello.
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Dominance
Many are capable,
some would say excel at
public play.
Flogging and whipping and tying,
humiliating and denigrating
their submissives
in public.
The audience at once both
appreciative and in awe,
tinged with fear,
claps and murmurs assent,
approval,
Says THIS!
is how dominance is done
this way, or perhaps,
this way,but always
thusly.
Full of bravado and
a sense
of performance.
I am incapable
of such behaviors.
Consequently I am called in turn
insincere,
not-real,
standoffish,
a prude!
A select few know the truth
of my dominance
my power and control
that is deeply personal and
intensely private.
I will get under your skin despite
all your vows to yourself
to remain separate,
apart,
above,
aloof.
I do not need toys;
whips and chains and ropes,
to bind your soul to mine.
No.
A stance,
a glance,
words whispered in hot hot breath
in your ear,
words that travel down your spine
and make your most intimate parts
tingle
and twitch.
Words that coil
and twist
and embed themselves
into the innermost
folds
of your brain.
A glance,
a word,
I will consume
you.
All of you.
Bite,
and scratch,
and
FUCK you.
Keep you offguard
unbalanced
falling,
and being caught.
Only to be tossed again
into chaos
of mind
of heart
of throbbing heat
and need.
No,
my dominance
is not for public display.
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