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I am not actively seeking new submissives at this time but am not adverse to finding one so you may write to me if you wish. If you do write to me, please make sure that what I receive is well-thought-out, well-written. One-liners will receive the attention they deserve: none. If you are not local to me, you must be willing to relocate.
If you want to be with me, you will come willingly to me. I will not force anyone to be mine. I desire someone who wants to submit to me and to serve me. I consider this willingness to submit and serve more important than experience in the lifestyle. I expect my submissives to demonstrate respect for me at all times in public and private. But I also want a slave who can be playful and fun. My submissives are my slaves. My standards for those slaves are high and I do not relax them. I prefer my slaves to submit to me in the privacy of my home but I also love humiliating them by forcing them to submit and serve in public. I expect my submissives to participate in the D/s community and to be able to function at a high level both within that community and outside it. Trust, honesty, and communication are essential to a successful D/s relationship. Of these communication is the most critical. If you are unable or unwillingly to open yourself up to me completely, you will not remain my submissive.I believe on-line D/s and role-play can help people get started in the lifestyle and help them to work out fantasies in preparation for real life submission..
I am poly-amorous but I also seek lifelong relationships. I expect my slaves to be friends and siblings but do not expect them to have sexual relations with one another. I do not share my submissives with others. I enjoy using them myself too much for that. While I see 24/7 D/s as a goal, I think it is important to realize that everyone is human and needs downtime.
I love having control. I am drawn by true obedience.Something about making a boy cry, whether from humiliation or pain, just touches me. I am a sadist. I delight in inflicting both mental and physical pain. I enjoy the art of Shibari and find myself loving it more as I learn more of it. I love edge play. I hate judgmental people in the lifestyle. I enjoy a variety of submissives, including both both those whose primary motivation is pain and those whose primary motivation is humiliation. I am not completely averse to compelling homosexual acts on heterosexual males. However I do not necessarily require any of those from a slave.
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I have been sitting here today thinking about alot of things. One thing that has been on my mind quite a bit lately is that some sub/slaves seem to forget that Dommes are people too. With all the messy emotional baggage that everyone else has. We have wants and needs and desires too that encompass many things, not only lifestyle related. We have bad days too. Sometimes *gasp* we need to hear that we are needed and wanted as something other than the person who doles out punishment and orders. I truly cherish the messages I get from some just asking how I am and if I am having a good day. It may seem silly to some, but knowing that other person truly cares about you, as a person, is a wonderful thing in my eyes.
I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect and that I have things that I need to work on as well. Can anyone really claim perfection? Therefore how can any of us look down our noses at anyone else? I am in this lifestyle because I love it, I love the deviant turns my mind takes and I love to see true tears on the face of my slave. BUT I also enjoy having a conversation that has nothing to do with the lifestyle I enjoy talking about art and movies and general silliness. While I realize that in some people's opinion my playful nature might seem to be something other than what it is, it is part of me that I love and would do nothing to change. |
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Posting from a group I am involved with but I thought I would pass it along.
1. POOR-ME SUB:This "sub" always has something going wrong in her life. Of course,it is never her fault.. she is always being played upon and victimized by others. If only she found the *perfect* dom/me, her life would be problem-free and forever-blissful. Favorite IM to and: "Will you be my domme,maam? I am just a helpless little subbie." Favorite IMto receive: "Just do what I say, slave!"2. JUST-DO-ME SUB:This "sub" just wants to be beaten. It doesn't really matter by who,or what..as long as he (I use "he" here because these are typicallymale) can feel the lash. Frequently misbehaving on purpose, this sub can drive a dom/me *crazy*. Favorite IM to send: "I have been naughty and need to be punished. Spank me now, Mistress!" Favorite IM toreceive: "You are a bad sub and need to be punished!Bendover!"3. BARBIE-SUB:This "sub" just likes the way she looks in leather fashions. She is afraid of the whip, and has never seen a clamp in her life. Her favorite store is "Dream Dresser", and her whole paycheck is spent there each week. Favorite IM to send: "Would you like to know what I am wearing, sir?" Favorite IM to receive: "What are you wearing?"4. HE-HURT-ME SUB:This "sub", without any negotiations, talk of limits or safewords,rushes out to a country cabin to to play with a dom/me she met 2 days ago online. After letting him tie her up and whip her, she decides heis a menace to society, and can't wait to tell all her "sub" friends he is a "BAD dom/me". Favorite IM to send: "Sub sis, I need to pass on a warning to you!" Favorite IM to receive: "My poor sub sis, you have got to warn everyone about this creep!"5. I-JUST-NEED-A-MAN/WOMAN SUB:This "sub", after exhausting all her singles bar and healthclub meeting places, decides that the D/s world would be a good place to meet a*man*. she really has no interest in D/s, she just needs someone tospend the rest of her life with. She is a close relative of POOR-ME SUB. Amazingly, when she "gets her dom", she suddenly looses interest in any type of sex. Favorite IM to send: "Sir, will you take care of me forever?" Favorite IM to receive: "I have always dreamed of having a large family."6. NO-ONE-CAN-TOP-ME SUB:This "sub" longs to submit, yet claims no dom is strong enough to top her. Some say she is really just a domme in disguise. Favorite IM to send: "Think you are strong enough to put me in my place, jerk?"Favorite IM to receive: "No, Mistress, I am really just a weak and helpless slave. ::falling to the floor and kissing your boots::7. SUBMISSION IS THE GREATEST GIFT Submissive:This submissive has stars in her eyes and naivety in her heart. She swoons at the mere thought of a dom, any dom, asking her to pass the salt. She writes her dom's name in the corner of her notebook with little hearts and flowers around it. She declares that there is no better way to love than through submission, and that d/s is a "better" and "higher" manner of loving than anything a silly old vanilla person might do. She lives on an emotional roller-coaster,sentimental enough to cry when seeing a long-distance phone company commercial. Favorite IM to send: "You are all of life to me, there is nothing about life worthwhile without you." Favorite IM toreceive: "I am everything you'll ever want or need, and I'll protect you from everything."
please note that you can put in either male or female any of the above descriptions.
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ok ok so I have a gripe...........but I am not telling what it is *giggles* |
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