MsMere

Sending me friend request after friend request after friend request, even though I delete every one sent is not going to get said repeated requests eventually approved.

 Very much the opposite.

I know I have said this before, but it seems to bare repeating --

I do not accept random friend/circle requests. If we have not at least spoken back and forth a little bit, I am not going to accept your add request.

Wow. It takes someone of real depth and maturity to fire insults at someone, and then make an entirely new profile just to get the last word in when the other person has already let it go. I have no idea what you're reading, but clearly you need someone to teach you how to. I am well aware of what it does, and does not say in My profile, and whatever you think you're reading there, there is nothing of the kind there.

No wonder you're still unclaimed. I'm not surprised.

Well, this was definitely not the day I had planned.

Just back from the ER with a sprained ankle. I guess that'll teach me to watch for gopher holes when trying to rescue a lost and frightened kitten.

Talk about learning a lesson the hard way!

This'll make gimping back and forth to class quite the challenge.

Engage the body, and the reward is desire.

Engage the mind, and the reward is devotion.

Yeahhh... I don't care who you are, or how big you think it is (and I emphasize the word *think*)...

 I'm not even slightly interested in seeing pictures of your penis.

Being faced with the mortality of a loved one really does change a person's priorities..

I've seen it said more than once now: "Surrendering is the key to trusting"

I beg to differ. I'm thinking it's the other way around. Trust should always come first. Surrendering without trust opens the door for danger and hurt, but trusting enough to surrender allows for the true beauty and magic of this lifestyle to flourish.

Here's a novel concept -- before you  go calling someone crude names and accusing them of not responding to a message, try actually writing them one first.

Duh.

Thank you all for your well wishes for My father. He is recovering for a few weeks, before going back in for a bypass. Your thoughts and prayers are appreciated.

Rethinking and reevaluating a lot of things. Doing a lot of re-prioritizing. In a very numb place right now.

Won't be around for a little while. My father had a heart attack last night. I don't know when I'll be back around.

Anyone can be domineering, but it takes a very different kind of person to be a true Dominant. One merely requires that you act without thinking. The other requires that you always think before you act.

Okay, ladies and gentlemen -- slaves, submissives, and Dominants alike: I do not do chat on this site. I appreciate the interest, but any chat invites *will* be declined.

If you're going to 'view' Me 2 or 3 times a day, at least say something. I'm not really all that interested in having a CM stalker.

If you have to label yourself a 'bitch', or a 'prick', or whatever other tough title you deem yourself to be --- chances are you're probably not. If it were a natural trait, you wouldn't need to announce it. You would emanate it naturally. Anything else is just facade to hype up ego.

No, I really can't be your "dominate".

I don't know how to be a verb.

"I'm an educated person, and I'm looking for a dominate"

Well, no.. not really. If you were an educated person, you'd be looking for a dominaNT, so either that's what you're looking for, orrr... perhaps the first half of your claim isn't as true as you'd like to think it is.

So many admirers, and yet so few actual greetings from said admirers.

Hm... 

It has been an extremely difficult evening for me tonight, so I opted to take some down time. I am not ignoring the messages I've been sent. I will respond to them tomorrow. I'm just too tired to do it tonight.

I wish someone would stuff a ball-gag in Jennifer Hudson's mouth. Make that annoying wench stop singing, already. Those commercials make me twitch and head for the Excedrin bottle.

I am going to make something crystal clear, here.

When I decide to take my time to train a submissive, I expected that my commands will be followed, regardless of how uncomfortable it makes the submissive. I never demand anything that will cause permanent damage, and I believe I am, in most cases, more than fair. Defiance will NOT be tolerated.

I recently began working with a submissive who was eager to discover and become the slave she believes she is meant to be. At first, she was quite compliant -- until I instructed her to purchase a webcam for verification. She expressed hesitation, and I told her that I understood her hesitation, but expected it to be done nevertheless because she has to learn to push past her own boundaries for the sake of pleasing her owner. Again, she refused. I had her post a journal entry detailing what a defiant little slut she was, and begging for forgiveness. I then instructed her to purchase a mic for voice verification and gave her a deadline for when I expected it to be done. This morning, I instructed her to post a picture of herself on this site. Again, she openly refused, despite being given the option of emailing me the picture directly as well. While she read the message, she has apparently opted to not respond to it. Needless to say, I am done wasting my time.

My time is precious, and I have very little of it. If I take on a submissive for training, it is because I believe him or her to possess the qualities that could potentially make for an excellent submissive/slave. It is an investment of my focus, creativity, and commitment. I damn well expect that when I give an instruction, no matter how uncomfortable it is or how much nervousness it causes, it will be heeded with the trust that I know what I'm doing and would never put a submissive/slave into a position that could potentially cause danger. I have neither the time nor the patience for a defiant brat who insists on playing things their own way despite claiming to be a submissive. I am a fair and reasonable Domme. I listen to concerns when expressed and I am willing to discuss them further. I will -not-, however, bend on my expectations, and it is outrageous and appalling of any submissive to think otherwise... of any Dominant.

Make no mistake -- from here on, I have no intention of being so lenient anymore. If I instruct it to be done, it better be done. It's just that simple.

It has come to my attention that there might be someone on the other side on this site who is using my pictures and claiming them as her own. Rest assured -- *I* am the real deal. She is the fake.

I wonder indeed where the two young ladies who were so intent upon my attentions earlier today have disappeared to.

So many views, so little follow-up.