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It is important for you to understand that every single Master/Mistress’ training of a slave is UNIQUE. Having said that there are principles that must be followed for a “communicative” process be established that is both understood by all parties.

I must first assess your current behavior which is difficult and I have gotten a good sense of through our chats are. However, this is not enough and won’t know much of this until we are together.

For example, how much of your past experience with your Mistress are you longing for that you want replicated? The information is so far that you’ve shared has been that you miss serving and given little hints as the bidet, the spreader 2 and other little subtle hints of what you’re desiring.

The real training starts once you commence our hopefully live-long relationship. In an attempt to asses your current behavior I will not only take the spoken responses but the body language and unspoken gestures you emit as you’re told to do something. The most so-called inconsequential request will not go unnoticed.

You know the plan is for you to immediately submit to my requests and see how exactly you follow that request. It is incumbent upon me to be “precise” in what it is I want you to do and how to please me. This requires openness, honesty and complete focus on the task.

What is also important is self-image.

Self-image, as you know is the barometer we all have that gives us an indication of what equilibrium we are in order to assess our own happiness, self-worth and sense of accomplishment as to where we’re heading. Part of your self-image is that you’re totally at-ease in serving me and my husband. This requires an exchange of TRUST.

Trust is a function of history, knowing how one has acted in the past, knowing that one can count on what one says or does, and is totally complacent with the thought that they are safe and can rely on that person to assist and come to their aide. A pre-cursor to trust is credibility. After time, and time only, we’ll learn that each one of us can trust the other or not trust the other. You don’t know this for certain yet, but my husband and I pride us in our credibility, sense of fairness and respect we generate from others who discover this. We do what we say we’ll do. We can be taken literally.

This scenario will create an “emotional state” between us.

Here’s where your “are you strict” statements come in. That statement is an expectation that has a vague reference to it. We have discussed what you’ll do and not do. It appears to be amenable to you but you MUST be explicit and clear when you’re not receiving the level or type of discipline you’re seeking. This is only workable if there’s a give and exchange of communication between us which will learn during your trial visit.

During your visit, we’ll both be able to assess the reactions of the other.

This is what makes the process “unique and an inexact science.” I’m confident we’ll succeed but it is an omnipresent process no matter how long we’ve known each other. We must communicate back and forth to be successful and happy. This is analogous to the “present thought process.” Simply stated, talking about what’s going on in our heads and between us all. My husband and I talk for hours on a semi-regular basis. We talk about everything from family, politics, goals, wishes, desires, and future plans. You’ll be incorporated into this process. You will “fit in” this process with us.

Whatever insecurities you have, we’ll discuss. We do not approach life with fear, nor acceptance of insecurities. We confront them, work on them and overcome them.

Acceptance of the goals we’re devising by you is up most of importance.

If you do not want to give what we seek, it simply won’t work. I’ve told you all we seek is to do as told, that simple.

I’ve articulated some if not most of those tasks that I want you to perform.

Our daily schedule will include assisting me and/or my husband in ANY task that our family is confronted with. You’ll help whenever requested. You’ll pamper me as we’ve discussed. You’ll go with us where we go. All of this has to be agreeable to you. However, this does not mean that you’ll be making any decisions as to what is to be undertaken. Your advice is not sought. Your education in life is to serve. We are here to help you understand life, protecting you; predict what is to come and an opportunity to control what happens.

I do not want to be presumptuous that you’ll demonstrate a myriad of excuses for bad behavior for I do not preconceive from you that bad behavior will be present. However, you know that I do not put up with nonsense (illogical statements or excuses) for a reasonable expectation of your performance. I will not ask you to do anything illegal or unreasonable that you can not perform. I do not detect any “mental stability” issues with you for you are articulate and well-focused.

Anger is not a mechanism I/we employ in our life to make decisions. I will not get “mad” at you but I will “inform” you when you are not pleasing me. Don’t ask for reassurance that you’re pleasing me. You’ll know by my treatment of you which will be favorable. There is no RAGE in this training…none.

I/we will provide direction and support, encouragement, insight, change, challenge that will give you a new value system. The instructions will be clear and will follow any questions you may have to provide you with clarity in what’s expected.

You will experience differences from your prior experiences that will place you in a “cognitive dissonance” that you might struggle with. Differences in our tastes and preferences may be unfamiliar but not unreasonable. Any resistance on your part to reasonable requests for change will result in a force that supersedes your desire for the status quo. I do not anticipate this but I’m allowing for that possibility. I do not anticipate many “undesirable” qualities on your part, but allow for it.