i am chelsea, Her slave. It is Mistress' desire for me to write an introduction and explain who and what She seeks from a sub. Of course, it is to my great honor that She has asked this of me.
If you are interested in an 24/7 D/s relationship, are submissive and of course, respectful then there is a possibility that you need to search no further. There are few other requirements that must be met but it is essential that you be intelligent, confidant with who you are, sensual, bisexual and employable. You must not be married, be afraid of intimacy, or looking to play games. Of these things there is no room for negotiation!
Also, as a bit of advice to you, Mistress is not iterested in cyber, phone or players. Please do not waste Her time by trying to contact Her if you can not abide by the few things that She has requested
Still interested? By all means, please read on!
Mistress Cathy is a very strong Domme with an intellect and a sense of humor to be rivalled by few. She is a BBW and like every other Woman Has needs and desires. Mistress is a very soft and loving person in many
aspects. She longs for the closeness of a man, to feel his touch and to hear his heart beating for Her. She needs the things that only a man can do for a Woman. The things that i am not able to provide Her with.
On the other side of the coin lies the fact that Mistress is a true Domme! She gets what She wants and deserves NOTHING less! Mistress does indeed have a sadistic side and is not at all afraid to punish for improper behavior! And trust me when i say, whether for pleasure or punishment, Mistress does enjoy inflicting pain!
Mistress' life is very hectic, She is a very busy Woman! It is very typical for Mistress to wake around 6:00 AM and not get to bed again untill midnight or later. Mistress is constantly on the run and finds Herself frazzled and exhausted by the end of most nights. She needs a good excuse to spend more time at home, relaxing, taking care of Herself and being pampered in ways that i am not capable of fulfilling!
Mistress Cathy is a nurse by profession. She works at a convolescent hospital in Portland, Oregon in the Alzhiemers/Dementia unit. Mistress is a very compassionate person in some respects and She truly loves Her chosen vocation. Because of Her profession, Mistress works a very strange schedule. She works second shift with three dasy on, one off, four on and two off. She has every other weekend off but after six months i still can't figure it out so i just accept it for what it is and smile!
On Her off time Mistress enjoys a wide variety of liesure time activities. Some of Her favorites are; karaoke, reading, going for long rides in the country, movies, cuddling and being pampered. Mistress Cathy loves flowers and gifts of love and you must not forget that She is indeed a very Dominant Woman with an incredible lust for the sadistic side of life.
As far as musical interests, well..................let me just say that Mistress is an extremely eclectic person. To the best of my knowledge the only forms of musical expression that Mistress does not care for are Country Western and Rap, and even in theses there is room for exception. On an average i would say that Mistress listens to more Rock then anything else but She tends to go through phazes where She is liable to listen to just about anything.
As far as the 'nilla side of the house, this is Mistress Cathy in a nut shell. In many aspects of life, She is a very average Woman. It is in the other aspects of life that Mistress is the most wonderful Woman in this world, far exceeding anyone that i have ever or will ever deserve to be owned by!
First off, it must be clear that Mistress Cathy already owns Her slave, She does not require or desire another. What Mistress Cathy does wish is to find one or two submissive men to please Her on the sensual side of life. It is not required of you to be a maid or to cook meals for Her, that is my purpose in Mistress' life. There will of course be times that i am temporily indesposed that you will do these things but primarily your function will be to keep Mistress' desire for male contact satisfied.
As stated in the introductory portion of Mistress' web page, there are a few requirements that you must meet. You must be intelligent, articulate, honest and respectfull above and beyond all. You must be employed or employable upon Mistress accepting you as Her submissive. You must be clean, obedient and eager to learn the specific pleasure that Mistress enjoys. You must be bisexual and you MUST be able to prove that you are HIV negative!!
Though She is not in this for money, Mistress will expect you to be gainfully employed in a full time position. Though it is expected of you to give all earnings to Mistress, do not frett. Mistress Cathy truly is a generous Woman and enjoys spoiling Her toys when She feels they deserve it. Also, you will be given an allowance as it is not safe or responsible to send you out the door to work with no money to deal with unexpected necessities.
On the topic of photographs, they are not absolutely needed. At some point, all applicants will be required to send Mistress a photo or two but not as a requirement of initial contact. For those of you who would like to send them, be respectful! Nudity is not considered disrespectful, as long as it is done in good taste. Any pictures not showing your face, close-ups of individual parts (except your face) or pictures of you engaging in sexual activities with anyone or anything besides yourself are NOT acceptable! If you could not explain that picture to your mother, don't send it to Mistress Cathy!! Disrespectful pictures will be discarded along with your application, end of story.
One Last thing on the subject of expectations.........................you gotta have a truly demented sense of humor to survive here! As serious and somber as things can get, Mistress is always ready to have fun when the situation permits!
There are also a few preliminary questions that need to be asked of you before proceeding much further though. How old are you? Where do you live? Mistress wants only 24/7 live-in subs, are you willing to relocate if not local? (Mistress keeps Her home in Portland, Oregon.) What do you do for a living? Please supply Mistress with some basic information so that She has some basis to begin getting to know you on.
Hope to hear from you soon!
Thank you,
chelsea