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Hello,
I am MorpheusNYC and I am a Sexuality Educator who teaches within the community and academically. Below is the my profile. I do not have any classes coming up but recently co-produced ManhattanLoveFest and was on the Senior Staff for TheFloatingWorld which is the largest BDSM/Educational/Social conference in the country with 1200 people in attendance.
There is more about me personally at the bottom of this profile.
Also, I run the nycALTevents calendar : the list of all the alt events(Burlesque, SM/Fetish, Erotic Art Shows, Swinger, Burning Man, Masquerade Balls, Comic Conventions, Tattoo Conventions, anything out of the norm). This list is open to everyone. To get on the list, you can google it.
More about me personally:
I am an intelligent, witty,
gregarious,athletic, confident yet not arrogant(confidence is believing
in oneself because you have prepared yourself in life or for the
situation, arrogance comes at the expense of others) , muscular 6'4",
very experienced Dominant(teach BDSM classes and have attended 300-400,
BDSM/Sexuality/Sensuality for me is a never ending journey of
learning, exploration) seeking an attractive, height/weight
proportionate, nonsmoking, emotionally healthy(no emotional disorders,
substance abuse, body image problems), fun loving, intelligent
submissive/switch with whom to explore in real time.
I
would like to meet a female who desires to surrender with a man she
connects with, who is under 40 years of age, attractive, fit,
nonsmoker(kissing is WAY too important) , and emotionally stable. Yes,
believe it or not...that last trait can be hard to find;) I am also
seeking someone who doesn't have any major health problems as I have
been with two subs whom I cared for deeply who passed from cancer at a
very early age. I am happy that we shared our time together yet I am
not ready to be in a relationship with those challenges. You should be
happy with your life(I am not here to fix anyone's life), possess an
optimistic view of life(not jaded) and not a drama queen. In rare
cases, I am open to playing with couples(I am straight). Also, I am
open to meeting/socializing with those in the local BDSM scene or at
BDSM/Fetish conventions around the country/world.
I
desire to meet a special someone with whom to share a special, long
term, healthy relationship that is emotionally committed. That is my
preference yet I can't control when I meet that person. I can just be
open for that happening. Where a relationship goes depends on the
chemistry. I am open to exploring casually(not my preference) with
those whom I develop a friendship/connectivity with. Normally(even in
friendships) I need to explore in the context of some type of
relationship as the way I like to explore requires a great deal of
energy/vulnerability on my part. I need to know that my partner is
willing to open herself to give of herself and receive the gifts that I
have to offer. Just playing is like cotton candy for me....interesting
sometimes yet not ultimately fulfilling.
I
enjoy a relationship with a woman where there is a connection and a
power exchange....where she surrenders because she has chosen to give
that gift.
I am not a Sadist in the traditional
sense.....I don't get pleasure in simply beating someone. That is
mindless. I am a Sensual Dominant. I was a Russian
interrogator/Counter-Intelligence agent(yes, very true...your tax payer
dollars now helping the kink community;)) in the military and role/mind
play is very sensual for me and is my forte'. For me, the body makes
for a beautiful canvass visually but it is the MIND that is the
ultimate canvass that you can use to create beautiful art. Connecting
to the Mind/Heart is more enjoyable for me. A submissive woman is often
VERY STRONG and independent in the normal world. This is her release. I
celebrate both sides of her. I'd also like to say... I am looking for
someone who is truly sensuous. Everyone says they are sensuous but it
is a rare individual that can appreciate it as an Art Form. The very
few, who are artists, see their lover's body AND mind as a canvass on
which they can express the beauty that lies within the artist's heart.
This comes with a creativity that will spend hours thinking how to form
that canvass into a masterpiece of bliss. A sensual artist uses his/her
fingertips, lips, hair, and words as his/her brushes. An artist is
willing to push his/her boundaries of what is pleasurable to explore
ecstasy. An artist will read books, magazines, do certain exercises,
listen to her lover's body and words all to express herself better. An
artist also understands that to attain the highest levels of ecstasy,
that the mind/heart is the most important element. Even though the body
makes for a beautiful canvass visually--it is the mind/heart that
transcends all senses. When one is able to give to a lover
emotionally/mentally the beauty that lies within oneself [by doing the
small, creative things], then the couple can experience new levels of
sensuality and ROMANCE.
What I wrote may
intimidate some as they have never explored in this manner. For me,
what matters is not one's experience yet one's desire to learn/grow. I
write this not to intimidate yet to connect with those who desire to
explore/journey in a meaningful, connected, conscious manner.
For
me Bondage, is a form of extended foreplay. I love teasing my Sub till
the point that her wetness is dripping down her leg. Or creating a
mental roller coaster of surprises that has her stomach filled with
butterflies from anticipation. Building trust to explore her
boundaries. For without Trust there is no US. Trust is the biggest
aphrodisiac for me. I have always been an Explorer....and I will
certainly take my sub to new heights of passion, pleasure, and ecstasy
because she has chosen to give the reigns to Me. Notice I didn't say
pain......because I will deliciously blend(based on her limits) that
border of pleasure/pain that it will be strictly interpreted as
pleasure....the wall of pain will not exist for it will have
transformed into pleasure:)
When it comes
to BDSM, I am a chameleon. I change depending on the sub that I am with
AND most importantly where she and I are MENTALLY that day. The
connection will vary from day to day therefore you may change the way
you explore from day to day. This doesn't mean that I wishy washy. It
means that I am flexible yet firm.
There
are things that are very important to me and I am firm on those:
Honesty, Integrity, Loyalty, Being Gracious, Compassion, Humility,
Kindness and Hospitality. All of these go for the Dominant, as well as,
the submissive. I enjoy teasing someone until she drips down her
leg.....and then I tease some more. What will do this for each person
is different. Some enjoy more pain(sensation), others less. Each person
has their own buttons that when manipulated fire the loins. The
activity or sensation level is not important to me, what is important
is the connection between the 2 people. I use BDSM as a conduit to
facilitate deeper connections. The dynamic connection is my turn on,
thus the reason I can easily be a chameleon. Our boundaries(yes, Doms
have boundaries as well) are flexible and will change with time. Either
expanding or contracting. Being flexible, I am able to understand this.
I have a very wide range of play styles from: sensual, loving, erotic
humiliation, play rape, seduction, eroticising pain, to sensory
deprivation..and others yet the play style I decide upon will depend
upon you and what will work for US. I have a circle of activities I
enjoy. You have a circle of activities you enjoy. I work within that
intersection of mutually enjoyable activities to explore Our
boundaries. In real life I am a very gregarious, congenial person and
yes...I have been called an Alpha male... perhaps just once;) As an
Alpha male, I don't think that one leads by bullying yet by seeing a
path and building a collective will to go down that path. Yet, an
Alpha male has to be mentally strong enough to blaze that path alone if
others are not willing to journey with you and the risk vs. rewards
makes it worth it. In the scene as well, I am conscious not to put
airs on or get an attitude except with My sub or a sub that has bowed
before me and that is when the scene makes it fun do to do so. I chose
my first internet screen name(WickedlyFunDom)very carefully when
entering the formal scene years ago. I thought it was ridiculous how
many Doms walked around like they had a corn cob stuck up their ass. I
think that some people forget the main reason we do this is....FUN. .
On occasion, I will stick the metaphoric corn cob up my ass but that is
when tongue in cheek humor is appropriate...or is that corn in cheek;)
Yes, sometimes I love torturing a sub with corny humor while she is
tied up...I know...very sadistic of me:) Make no mistake, I can be
very firm when needed......no pun intended. As a Dominant, you will
find that I am gregarious with a wicked wit yet I instill discipline as
a loving, nurturing Dominant who mentors a sub. We both learn from
each other as we journey the path together. For long term
relationships, I will require things of a sub that will improve her
life(things she has expressed a desire to change): read certain books,
exercise more(may actually whip her into shape with a personal training
session since I was a fitness consultant), or other positive changes
she wants to strive for yet needs the loving figurative kick in the ass
to do:) Please do me the courtesy of putting blueberry in the first
line of your response as this way I know that you have read my
profile...it is the small things in life:) Likewise, with someone I
share that connection with I am sure I would be inspired to be a better
Dominant and person in general. My Pic is posted so I expect you to
do the courtesy of sending me a photo at some point in the
correspondence. I currently live in NYC area(Jersey City). When I lived
in SF, I was very involved in the SM and Fetish scenes. I do travel
nationally and internationally exploring the scene and vanilla
sightseeing so if you want to send a letter in case we are ever in the
same neighborhood, please do. I have met a couple of subs years after
our initial email when I/she had occasion to travel to the other's
locale. If you enjoyed my profile or related to it, then I look forward
to hearing from you:)
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