Ok first....If you do not read all my profile please dont ask if you i want to play... I am a down to earth type of person. I am a single mother of 2 I have a girl and a boy. My kids are my life. They are very important to me and will do anything to keep them happy. I am not looking for someone to have just a good time with. I dont let alot of people into my life cause I have been hurt alot and things have happen to me and mine that in due time you will find out about. Im not a basket case or anything like that. Its just Im the type that you have to earn my trust. I don't think that the BDSM is a lifestyle, I think it something that you and your partner enjoy in the bedroom only. It is a side of me that my kids haven't seen and don't want then to. I am not a sub/slave or a Dom/Mistress I am just me.. I don't care for who's who, for me it's if you care for that person than that what you do for them to keep the other person happy. I don't need training or anything like that. I feel that if you dont like me the way I am then we don't need to be together. Besides I am to old and set in my ways to be trained...lol But I want someone that knows what they are doing and knows what they want and don't need to be trained either. When it comes to the bedroom, yes I am a little kinky but not as much as most. I like plain sex but sometimes it need a little kick. I am a cuddler and a very touchy-loving person. I love to be held, and love to laugh. I will try to keep my profile updated as much as I can. If you like what you read. then drop me a line.