MissDAL

Warning:
I've taken some time and thought to fill this out and I expect the same in your response. I expect enough substance to show me yourself in a way that will capture my interest and make it clear to me why you deserve my consideration. If you can't communicate to me you won't be able to submit to me. An honest attempt will be considered over any e-mail that seems to be cut and paste, a few short lines, begging for anything including chat time, or a form letter style. Those types of messages will NOT be replied to. So be yourself and tell me about you. Don't give me something like "I have a deep need to serve and I like to see my partner happy". That's pretty much a given if you are calling yourself submissive.

The kind of D/s relationship I'm after relates to a power exchange that goes way beyond the simple fulfillment of a kinky sex fantasy. It has many levels from the deep satisfaction of playing out a scene to the every day enjoyment of having a companion by my side that knows his place, as far as having a sense of himself and what he wants from submission or at least an idea, because he has take the time to learn, accept and grow from previous experience and can incorporate what I teach. It's my view that these things can only come from patience, communication and taking the time to develop the trust needed to explore and develop an "us". Specific D/s interests will be discussed with an interested and interesting sub of my choosing. A very general taste of some of my interest include but not limited to what can be seen in the side bar. I will not settle for less than I want or deserve. I expect obedience and willingness to bend to my ways but I do not need a mindless robot. You should be willing to learn how to serve me within the boundaries I set for you and of course your own limits. This requires a creativity of spirit, strength of heart, and an intelligence of mind. I expect you to be polite, original, a gentleman, sincere in your need to submit because it completes you, interested in, and will make time for a relationship. I understand the need for discretion with some non-d/s parts of life but disrespect is never tolerable. Treat me well and you shall reap the reward of my reciprocated attention, respect and your own happiness. In short you will get back what you put into this endeavor. Toward the balance of compatibility my interests outside of D/s run a spectrum including but not limited to reading - mostly assorted fictions, certain movies which carry a good plot and don't rely on effect alone, music of various kinds, strolling the outdoors, museums, zoos, needlework, a recent interest in creating graphics and an animal lover of most kinds. That's off the top of my head though I'm sure there is more. I enjoy a dinner out, cooking myself or having a special dinner made for me. I especially enjoy a quiet night simply having a good conversation with someone whose company I enjoy. I consider myself a spiritual person (notice I did not say religious but spiritual, there is a difference) so if that's a problem for you don't apply. You are - 36-48 (approximate and somewhat flexible), reasonably local to me, single, divorced, widowed, seeking someone compatible for a LTR one-on-one relationship, drink-drugs-smoke free submissive. I believe in balance and though I know how to control there is a gentle and affectionate side for the one that I care for. After all it goes beyond statistics alone. It's how well we work together. Pictures available privately to Compatible possible partners.
My Ethnicity - American/Italian

You need not apply if you are one or more of the following.
- a workaholic
- have no time to invest in seeing if we are compatible
- looking for a Dominant to satisfy your laundry list of kinks
- looking for a quick fling
- looking to have a discrete affair behind your significant other's back
- define yourself as one of those that will do "anything"
- poliamourous, cd, tv, ts, tg must have/frequent need to wear women's clothing, interested in adult baby/infantilism, incest fantasy of any type, children, scat, animals, full time furry.
Please do us both a favor and keep looking. Thank you.

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