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*EDIT JAN/08 -- Changing the Actively Seeking to Friends only. Leaving the profile up as I am always open to new friends (and old friends I know!). Um ...that's it :)
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Carpe Diem -- let’s give this one a spin!
I'm in that tricky grey area -- there is the extreme "late night every night woo-hoo lets go!" party crowd -- which as someone who has one of those pesky corporate jobs can't exactly live. Likewise going to bondage/fetish events, even taking my vacation in October to go to the Exotic Erotic Ball, I'm not exactly of the mainstream either!
I enjoy the lifestyle as a supplement to life, but not as one to be lived 100% -- A typical week might look like for me (starting on a Monday) -- Gym and a movie, then tennis, then video games followed by bondage, then a night of fine dining and going to catch some live music, drive a few hours just to check out a new "event" -- kink or otherwise, a hiking day, a movie rental day etc. I like to keep life varied -- but I also enjoy the down time. I teeter between many groups and social circles, but due to the duality of my nature -- I find that I'm *completely* of one or another, though I do have my leanings. Some of my greatest joys have been Fetish festivals, Renaissance festivals, Irish Pubs -- places and experiences that appeal to the senses while having a social lilt. I've enjoyed too sparking up the fireplace, having an evening replete with movie rentals and finger foods. Should the mood strike a flogging session, a session with the violet wand, or a causal practicing of rope bondage on a willing body, then so be it, and with a smile!
In short, I'm a financial stable, no bullshit, goofy, fun, intelligent articulate, man somewhere between a nerdy corporate whore and a pervy hedonist! If you know how to use Google, I'm an open book. If you're a little rusty on it, what do you have to lose?
I have a penchant for women with similar views, but enough variation in their life and experience to complement in addition to supplement mine. Passion is a huge key for me -- it doesn’t matter WHAT it is that you are passionate about -- acting, music, yoga, photography, what-have you -- but be passionate about something! :)
If YOU can't be goofy, or accept someone who likes to on occasion -- good luck -- life is too short to take every moment seriously -- and there's a time for that, a time for intense sensuality, a time for passion with or without words, a time for something different/deeper. Thoughts?
What I'm looking for is someone who is comfortable with who they are in life, take calculated risks, and embraces life. Someone armed with a brain and isn't afraid to use it. Someone who has the self respect to take care of themselves, physically. Someone who is OK with being a little goofy or a little nerdy or even a little cutesy, realizing such idiosyncrasies do not diminish the individual in any way, but in fact add another dimension of appeal. Someone who has a relatively positive outlook on life -- someone who can embrace passion fully, and can and does revel in sensuality.
I tend to click with cat people, sushi eaters, festival goers, people who can be rather outgoing, people who like me will HUG a person when they meet them -- or generally IS a hug person.
The very bottom line is I'm looking for someone who, like myself, has lived a full, exciting, and thorough life and has come to a point of realization knowing that life can and will be all that, but with the right person, all the experiences take on a much deeper meaning, and heightens the experience by the sharing. No kids please, and the "Sweet spot" I'm looking at is 21-34.
... Then take a chance!
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Ok -- unhiding my profile -- I always bypass those "don't do this or be this" thing, and take them as being cranky -- well, not being the cranky type there's a few filters that have to happen! OK -- no picture? I'm going to assume you're a guy. Next, no conversation plus no picture just asking me to call? I'm going to assume you're a guy trying to get revenge by having strangers call his ex girlfriend. If you're outside of some of my limits above, know that cool, sure, we can potentially be really good friends, but that's all -- simply to get that out in the open. Finally, a few word generic e-mail, though honestly on occasion is appreciated -- will likely merrit just that, appreciation -- nothing personal if I don't respond back, that just means that there was nothing specific TO respond back to!
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