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I am a passionate, polyamorous, intellectual woman who is looking for connections with special people. Vanilla-wise, I'm a very social person, and have a strong interest in the arts. I have a BA in acting for theater, and I enjoy the theatrical arts as an observer, and when I can, as a performer. I am also very into literature, music and gaming. I am very passionate about the things and people I love, and the things I believe in.
?I identify as a 50/50 switch, and as lifestyle. I am polyamorous, and respect and value any partners I have, which means I am as open and transparent with them as possible, and make my existing commitments a priority. I've been in lifestyle relationships as both a D-type and s-type, and where I am in a power dynamic with any given partner is directly related to how we connect.
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Where collaring a new submissive or slave is concerned, I am open to anything from "24/7, but with limits" to a TPE.?That said,?I want to take time to get to know a new, potential sub or slave. In the case of a long-term or permanent collar, it is important to me to court or otherwise spend time working with the sub/slave I am hoping to collar within our power dynamic, before making such a large commitment, as I take the inherent responsibilities seriously. I am also happy to take on casual or more part-time dynamics, with the right people, and am okay with those less intensive arragnements moving a bit faster.
?Where my dominance is concerned, I very much enjoy being deeply connected to my sub or slave, as for me these relationships are very emotionally intimate. As a Domme, I care strongly about protecting my submissive, as well as offering guidance and leadership. I will frequently steer my them in the direction of personal growth, and desire to help them become the best version of themselves they can be - not something I've predetermined that may be unnatural to who they are, but the best version of them they can achieve. I am very attracted to subs or slaves who enjoy service, and those who are passionate about their submission. That said, other aspects of relationships are equally important to me. While I practice 24/7 relationships, the parts of those we spend laughing or cuddling together are just as vital as the time spent in service. I desire to nurture the relationship on multiple levels...but with a consistent understanding of the power dynamics within it. I'm attracted to intelligent subs and slaves, who I can engage in meaningful conversations with. I am open to TPE, but by no means demand it. If there are limits to what a partner can cede control of, I can respect and accept that.
As a bottom/sub, the way in which I want to connect with someone depends highly on my energy with them. Sometimes, I just want to bottom (engage in BDSM on the receiving end), and with some people, I want to actually surrender some measure of control. On the occasion that I find someone I want to submit to outside of play, I am somewhat service oriented, and care deeply about behaving in a way that makes my Dominant proud. In addition to service, my submission is also about surrendering to an individual wise enough to take on a leadership role with me. I seek out and am attracted to those who I can feel proud to follow - that means someone honorable, honest, compassionate and responsible. When I find a symbiotic connection and fully trust my partner, the waters of my submission flow down to my core, and my surrender is something about which I am deeply passionate, loving, and committed.?
?I'm more than happy to work with new people, from either a platonic or intimate perspective, regardless of their BDSM orientation. I enjoy providing guidance, support, or exploration to those who are starting out, but that doesn't have to involve any sort of intimate activity.
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?When I play, as a Dominant or a submissive, I do it for a variety of reasons. Sometimes, I simply like to have fun with a partner, friend, etc. Sometimes, its about intimacy - BDSM can be very bonding and create or express amazing connections, both romantic and otherwise. Other times, my play involves exploring my own psyche and/or that of my partner - I may use it to discover something about myself/help them discover something, experience a particular situation in a controlled setting, or aide in personal growth. I believe that BDSM can be incredibly profound and enlightening to the individuals involved. We can go to some interesting and sometimes intense places when we play, and I love using this as an outlet or personal tool.
I find it easy to allow myself to commit fully to a headspace, and get into the flow and energy of a scene, and I enjoy when my partners are also very present (even if its in an altered headspace way) for the experience. I am experienced with edge play, and love to play with intensity or macabre/twisted content, but I also like things that are light or romantic.
I'm currently in a triad relationship, but am open to seeing others with my established partners' consent. Right now, I'm primarily interested in play partners (though not necessarily sex), and female submissives. |
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As a heads up, I often do not refresh this enough that I will see chat requests, and I frequently see that I have one so late that when I click on it, the wait time has expired. I will definitely see your message when I check if you shoot me a PM, though, so its much easier to introduce yourself to me that way :) |
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