I'm a total obsessive about BDSM and Ive always been more sexual and way more experimental about sex than the "average person". I guess Im interested in a lot of things and not at all for the dog and pony show.... Im more interested in finding some like minded community or meeting people I want to play with on our mutual & hopefully kinky grounds of interest then demanding any particular set of acts from anyone... I am currently very interested in learning rope and suspension--it would be nice to have a friend (preferably a lady who shares the desire to learn) for rope practice only....
Its rare that I have been with someone who has been able to really learn me / push me, which is a shame, but luckily I do enjoy writing the script. I guess if I had to sum it up--I'm a queer identified switch but with sub leanings, a bratty power bottom... a tiny bit sadistic, a tiny bit masochistic... Regularly tested and super paranoid about my health so looking more to get to know people and share our experiences with the possibility of friendship and MAYBE some safe play down the line.
I'm looking for others who come at it feeling there is a 95% or more chance we won't have any sexual chemistry but still finds the whole exercise worthwhile. Not interested in one night stands OR serious monogamous relationships, only happy in in between places. (Basically poly)
I am not one of those people that can overlook huge personality flaws in order to get some action...to be a friend or a partner--intelligence is always most important.
Since I hear from folks seeking this very often--I'd like to say I really have no interest in a 24/7 power exchange relationship. I can imagine maybe a 24/1 or 24/2 for fun though. But Im gonna wanna turn around and beat your ass or vice versa when its all over.
Please be sensible and savvy and understand that if you want to chat in real life-- the best start is to include a photo that lets me know what you look like and maybe let me know something about you besides what you like in the bedroom. Ladies I'm just happy when I get a message from you, it brings me joy... but you fellows must rise above the masses! I do like you crazy motherf%$ers whose universe can revolve around the right psycho-sexual situation, but I REALLY love a high functioning artsy complicated person with tons of non-sexy interests....
Anyways, props go out to everyone willing to walk to the edge and look over it.
