Do it well, or don't do it at all. I live by this, I work by this and I enjoy like this.
I work a lot, I do a lot of charity work and I enjoy life. I am a very balanced individual. I like a challenge and I like to have fun. I am not like everyone else, not by far.
Well, about the lifestyle:
I have been in the lifestyle for a few years. I know a thing or two about this and that and I always try to learn more. My main point always is: Everything boils down to communication. You get that right and everything else will come together.