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Hello I am a Dom from t.o. I thought you may be interested in finding what helped me discover why I am dom!
I found that in every day life growing up I had to play sub! Grew up in the middle of two very strong femminist sisters and a very strict father that said never to harm a lady no matter what and made sure he inforced it. Trust me they used to torture me to the extent of sibling love!!! so hence I was a scapegoat for most things and used to get punished quite a bit! I found I got this treatment quite a bit in every day life at work or among so-called friends that would take advantage of me and my generosity! well as I found that in my fantasies I would be in control and demanding rather than my everyday life of giving! I found a fantastic sub that helped me discover my inner strength and bring it out! Well it worked! I found I could call apon that domminant side more often in my every day life and help form me into a respectable man I am and who doesn't get pushed around or taken advantaged of very easily. BDSM has really helped and Improved my life! and I find that being a dom can be just as giving as rewarding wich I have learned and embrace to make me a good Dom!
hope this story might help you with a little insight to BDSM and why I have embraced it |
