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I am here to introduce Myself and to give slaves the opportunity to see whether I would be of interest to them. I deliberately say it somewhat meek to ensure slaves can judge now and decide. That will be entirely different once you decide to submit.
So who am I? I am a Master in His early 50s with plenty of experience in S/m and, oh so important, M/s. I deliberately say M/s as I am not interested in subs that just want to submit for play. I am the real deal, and I dig deeply into My Mastery. I am 24/7 and I am relentless. So much so that most slaves will have difficulty keeping up. I demand and I demand a lot. But I also return the favor as I will make you truly feel slave.
I pour a lot of energy, physically and intellectually, into My M/s. I don't think it can be done any other way. As a Master I need to always be aware of what is going on. I need to feel I am Master, so I need to act like one. If I slack off, I am not worthy to be Master. So I don't slack off and I demand a lot from Myself and My slave. Life is a constant reminder of the roles Master and slave play.
I am a control freak. I have an eye for detail and I do not just complain about it. I make sure the details are taken care off. That means that I watch and correct. I see you and I will not let you get away with sloppiness or skirt and/or bend the rules. I enforce them, but I am also a realist. So when you can't follow My protocols and cannot accomplish the tasks I set, you will be out. I don't need to negotiate about this as this is a fact of life. Live by My rules or beat it.
I am a Sadist. I love to torture. Tears, bruises and begging don't interest Me. If you cannot handle My Sadism you cannot be My slave. It's as simple as that. That does not mean I have disregard for safety and sanity. But I push and I push hard. And I push in many ways. Do not expect Me to hold back because you don't feel well or are still hurting from earlier sessions. I will not. But, and I cannot stress this enough, I will not endanger you. I am sane and I am safe, but with an edge.
24/7 means 24/7. My M/s is not limited to the confines of the house or dungeon. And certainly not to the bedroom. I am out and I am out completely. I expect the same from My slave. If you have problems with marks, dress codes, or behavioral protocols, you should move on. I am Master at all times. I expect no less from My slave so you better be prepared for public display. you need to be comfortable taking orders in the presence of others and execute them without hesitancy. In that you have to trust My judgment. When I say undress I expect you to be naked without hesitation. When I order you to provide service to someone, you serve.
I take very good care of Myself. I eat well and I drink alcohol with limitation. I don't smoke and I certainly don't do any drugs. I regularly exercise. I will hold you to the same standards. I may give you some slack in the beginning but goals will be set and met.
Fetishes. Oh there are many. Maybe I should call them kinks. I love messy and degradation. Objectification and bondage (sometimes long-term) are also high on the list. I share My slave and love to watch as another uses her. I call names and pull hair. Dress codes and body mods. you name it.
So far so good. I may add more in the future but for now this will have to do. I invite those slave girls that have read until here to sit back and think. If you feel you could fit to Me I encourage you to contact Me.
Master Rough


I am here to find one or more slaves for rl. That is the long and the short of it. I am not on line to exchange porn fantasies. I don't engage in them. I am not going to write about scenes or how horny I am or how depraved I plan to make you. I don't need you for that.

However, if you would like to engage in discussions about slavery, what it means, end what you can get out of it, then you are more than welcome to contact. I will respond and I will do My best to help the discussion along. Every time when I talk to a lifestyler I learn. That is the other reason I am on here.

Why are people on Collarme so angry and destructive? All of you that are real should know that you have to deal with fakers on here. So expect it and don't waste energy on being angry. The faker does not give a shit about you and certainly not about your anger. It is our task as real people to find out as efficiently and quickly as possible whether the person we are dealing with is a fake or not. Is just part of the game.

The last 2 days have been a lesson on the absolute necessity of good and open communication. Without it we set ourselves up for disappointment and we don't get what we are looking for.

What happened? I met up with a slave for the first time last Friday. I understood her to be a slave in the sense that she was very dedicated to serve a Master, whether that Master was me or another. I also understood her to defer to her Master, almost entirely. So her Master could do whatever he or she wanted to do.

I was wrong. I did not ask enough questions. I did not challenge her enough about what she wanted/expected/needed. It turned out that I did not know what her needs were. We met and things seemed to progress well during the meeting and we agreed to meet again today. However, today I got an e-mail in which she stated that she did not want to continue. No problem. That can happen.

Today it also became clear to me that there is one central need that I understood to be just one of those things she would do for her Master. Not something she wanted because she wanted or needed it. In fact it is this need that appears to be totally central and essential to her BDSM experience. Without it she will not be happy.

I blame myself. I should have dug deeper and pried longer to get this clear. I am the Master and it is my responsibility to make sure I know, and that what I know is indeed the truth. So I am taking this as a lesson. I will dig more diligently to get to know my potential slaves better. And I will will do my best to be as clear and specific in my communication as well. I ask potential slaves to do some serious self discovery and communicate what has been discovered and give both of us a chance at a relationship we both want.

Today I am excited as I am meeting a new slave girl tomorrow. she and I have chatted and it is like the chat is on fire. It appears she is just a perfect fit to Me.Tomorrow I will know whether she is what I hope she is. I am meeting her in a cafe in Amsterdam for an interview. If cyber is any indication W/we will hit it off immediately. What happens next..........

As one part of a potential relationship I am prepared to do work. As a Dom I expect slaves to do work just like you expect work from Me. So if you want something from Me you need to do some work. I am not going to write long e-mails while you sit back. I give and I demand/expect. Oh and I certainly am not going to provide you with horny stories. My M/s is about Mastery and slavery. If you want horniness you better go somewhere else.

Today I approached a female slave. she seemed genuine and we exchanged e-mails. All of a sudden a profile like hers appears screaming that she is a fake. Maybe so. Maybe no. Now both profiles are gone. Frustrating thing is that it was all a waste of time. I am serious about what I am looking for and I dedicate significant amounts of energy on contacting slave girls. I think I have a pretty extensive profile. I write e-mails that are well beyond 1-liners. So yeah it all takes time and effort. A bummer but I will continue to seek and I will find.