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Do not refer to me in feminine terms; I am a masculine identified genderqueer.
See my account for more info. My username there is Zainin, user id 335068
ETA: Scroll to the bottom of the profile and read my journal entry down there. I shall ignore notes from anyone who clearly didn't read it.
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I know exactly what I want from my relationship and unless you can fulfill it, you cannot make me happy.
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I relish in the fantasy of a Victorian style home. My ideal however is not 100% "historically accurate". My proper man would be a dandy who enjoys wearing Victorian style butler uniforms, as I would require them to some extent that would be negotiable. I also enjoy dressing like a dandy and don't generally enjoy wearing dresses or feminine clothing, preferring tailcoats and suits.
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Talk to me if you want to learn more about me. I will not entertain relationships that have no promise, so don't bawl if I turn you down.
I do not like messages from people asking what they can do for me from the get-go. I do not like people who ask what they have to do to serve me from the get-go. I want an established relationship. I do not want couples. I do not want polyamoury. No switches. I do not and will not do casual encounters. I do not smoke and I only drink socially and my mate must be the same. I will not tolerate drunkenness. No drug use. |
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I have a fine hobby here. When people message me and make it very clear they didn't read my profile, I like to point it out to them...
...then I wait for them to appear in my "Who's Viewing Me?" about a minute after the message is sent. That alone gives me fits of laughter.
It's even better though when they message me again. Usually they call me a bitch or flat out lie and say they didn't say what I can prove they said- you know, having the notes and all- or they explain how they didn't MEAN to call me a woman and beg to submit to me immediately.
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I like when people message me and think they're all sorts of cute.
Oh, wait- no I don't.
Stop that shit.
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A while ago, someone messeged me and directly asked for sex, more or less. When I denied them, they called me a bitch and blocked me.
Now they're messaging me again, and seems to have forgotten that they blocked me... as they're getting very apprehensive that I'm not replying to the messages, when I can't.
Do people really have memories that bad? Or are they just unable to notice that this site displays all past sent messages to someone when you try to send?
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Do people not see that polyamoury and swinging are hard limits on my list, or is that just decoration?
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I speak politely as I can to anyone who contacts me. I think it is only right that I am cordial to people, especially people I do not know, whether they be dom or sub. That being said... when I say that I do not like having very heavy handed sexual advances made to me by people I do not know, or when I say that I am not loose and do not wish to have sex with or make out with or do anything with someone I do not know, it is more than uncalled for when I receive messages in return that range from telling me I'm rude, or that I'm not sure about this lifestyle, or flat out lazy one word insults. You know, things like "bitch" or "fucker" or, my favourite, "slut", despite the irony there.
Once again, if this is all you want, you are looking in the wrong place. I do not like that sort of thing, and I do not deserve to be spoken to that way when I say as kindly as I can that I don't.
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Seriously, people, stop calling me "Miss" and "Mistress" and "Ma'am". It's insulting.
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Look, I'm not looking for a fuck and I'm not looking for a quick hookup.
I do not like messages that amount to "WHAT DIRTY THING WILL YOU DO TO ME\CAN I DO FOR YOU?"
I do not like messages that amount to "Okay, how long after being your boyfriend will it be before we fuck?"
If you come asking me questions like that, I will be annoyed. I will be angered, even, in some cases. I do not like assumptions being made about me and I in exchange do not make assumptions about you.
Do not throw yourself upon me and beg me to torture you, or humiliate you, or fuck you.
I am worth more than that, and you are as well. |
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