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	Tired of the flack for the "Master" in a screen name I created when I was 18. I created a new ID, CallMeMrM See y'all there.

Chatting with another member here I thought that perhaps I should distribute some information on places to meet people in this scene offline, so here you go:

http://Groups.yahoo.com/group/SYCwmassTNG: This is the website for the TNG (35 and under) group that I run in the Pioneer Valley. We cater largely to the college crowd and are slowly developing our identity.

Cambridge Munch - On the 2nd Tuesday, and the 4th Wednesday 6:30pm-9:30pm at CambridgeSide Galleria Mall located at 100 CambridgeSide Place
Cambridge, MA 02141: This is an all ages munch that takes place in the food court at the mall.

Coffee and Kink - On the 2nd Sunday 7:00pm-9:00pm at Diesel Cafe 257 Elm St Somerville, MA 02144: A nice little TNG (35 and under) munch that takes place in a local hip coffee joint.

www.wmpe.org: This is the website for Western Mass Power Exchange. One of the best all ages munch groups I have ever been party to. They also have a play night at a dungeon in CT and a TNG group all their own.

So there you go everyone. Enjoy.

Hello all,
Well it has been far too long since my little blog here was updated. A tragedy to be sure. In the time since my last post the TNG group has flourished and even held its first Play Party, which I was told I should definitely post about.
The play party was much more of an Education Party, and this was how it was billed. Given the TNG group has a great many people who are brand new to the scene, we didn't want to create an environment where people would be uncomfortable, rather just a friendly atmosphere for people to be much more open about sharing ideas and tips. I did a couple of quick 101 teach ins on Bondage, Wax Play, and Flogging. We also had a Book Share so that people could put out literature that has been inspiring to them (everything from The Theory and Practice of Sex Therapy to Wild Side Sex was put out, and then there were the books other people brought). We also did a screening of the movie Secretary as many people had heard of it but woefully few had actually seen it (if you love it like I do, buy the DVD, the extras are priceless). I also presented some ideas from the book I am working on "BDSM on a College Student's Budget." All of which seemed very well received. I am glossing over a lot though because of the two things that happened at the party that were the most important as far as I was concerned. First off I formally adopted a new Scene name. I do this every so not-so-often when I feel I have advanced significantly in the scene. After I feel like I am a different person than the old name has represented. It is like going up through ranks to me. I recognize that this is not how most people approach scene names, but this scene is all about being true to your own way of doing things. The best event of the evening though was that I offered a collar of consideration to a lovely young lady whom I met, in a way, right here through collarme. A collar which she accepted and currently bears. She is beautiful in her captivity.

So the first meeting of my new TNG group took place this past Tuesday. It seems that this group was very much needed because it was a resounding success. The munch was extremely well attended and several of those that came claimed that they had friends who were interested in joining. It is so nice when a community comes together.

In other news, I am very pleased with the new ability to add music to profiles.

The first meeting of the Society of the Young and Competent is this evening. Wish me luck. Our group already has about 30 members. See the people who e-mailed me for information there.

The new WMass TNG munch group, The Society for the Young and Competent, has been launched. If anyone would care to join please feel free to e-mail me here.

Quick post made in anger.
Any Dom/me, ANY DOM/ME, that demands you buy them things as part of your service, is not a Dom/me. They are at best a golddigger, and possibly a whore. If you like to give gifts to your Top out of your own free will, that's fine and dandy. I've been scrolling through the lists of though, and I have seen several Tops asking for tribute, for designer clothes and jewelry and such as a requirment for being in their service. This disgusts me, and makes a mockery of my lifestyle. I invite you as fellow members of this lifestyle to mock and express your revulsion to those who would corrupt your desires for their own gain.

*edited because the subject reminded me of another quote*

I had a lovely session this weekend with someone I had chatted with on collarme, and then ran into at the Fetish Flea.
Between this weekend and the little bit of play we did at the Flea she has given me a great many quotes that are incredibly ego boosting.

- "I think I'm addicted to you now."
- "I didn't think that level of pleasure was possible"
- "you gave me a better orgasm than I've ever been able to give myself"
- (post coitus) "I'm jello...moving my arm is too much effort."

and others, good times.
The reason I post this is not too brag...ok, it's a little bit to brag...but rather to put a ray of light into the dark depths that can be the seeking of a BDSM partner, especially on the net. You can find people to play with, who will reflect your paraphilias and perversions. This is who I am, if I never touched a whip or rope again, it would still be who I am; and I never want to stop being me. Don't let anyone or anything stop you from finding your joy and love whatever form it takes.

a NEWS update:

- I think I have found a venue to host my new TNG group. You'd be amazed how hard it is to find a publicly available private space that doesn't charge you an arm and a leg to use and is on the bus route given I am trying to attract a younger crowd. I'll keep everyone in the loop.

- I have created a mailing list for said TNG group. I think I would be tackled by the collarme security hippo if I posted a link though. If you would like to join, please send me an e-mail address.

- I have been playing around with the "friends" function here on Collarme. If I have added you, please don't assume it's because I am aiming to claim you or something. I may have added you simply because you seemed interesting, or might at least be someone I could have a decent conversation with.

Good day faithful readers,
    I've decided that a TNG group definetly needs to be set up in Western Massachusetts. I also realize that perhaps some people don't know what a TNG group is.
    TNG stands for The Next Generation. In the scene TNG is a movement by the younger generation to form a community to share common experience and cultural identity. It also provides younger kinksters the opportunity to meet without people old enough to be your grandfather leering at you in person just as they tend to do on this site. The official age restrictions of TNG is 35 and younger.
    With this in mind I will be actively seeking a venue over the course of the next month so that a first meeting can be held when the various colleges in the area come back in session for the Spring semester. Probably something like February 3rd.
    I welcome ideas and commentary on this from people in the community, especially potential members. I especially would like to hear about discussion topics people would like, and days/times during the week that would work best for people. I will be speaking to NELA about being recognized by them so that we can get discounts at kink merchants and such.
   I can not wait to meet all of you at that first meeting. Be well all.

I am getting very annoyed with other Doms on this site. Mostly because every person I contact here has already been disillusioned and remains pissed off because people don't read profiles and believe they are exceptions to restrictions listed in those profiles. So here I am, a younger person with a highly developed sense of courtesy and I am constantly blocked by reports of men old enough to be women's fathers or even grandfathers pushing said women to the point where they give up on this site. Annoying to say the least. I thus implore the kink community at large. Doms, please, don't be imbeciles. Subs, please, don't judge us all by those that insist on being imbeciles.

Good evening everyone. So the Fetish Ball was a rousing success, I almost never didn't have someone waiting to be bound and I also had a large group of people hanging around to ask about the knots I was using and other general BDSM questions.
In other news, I contacted the person who used to be in charge of the local TNG group I know about. It seems that they didn't have a munch so much as educational parties, which is cool in its own right. However, I still feel there is value in having a regular munch for TNG folk.
With that in mind, I will be trying to start one I think in the next couple months.
Stay tuned.

Good evening everyone. I am sorry that I haven't been online very often recently, I am switching over internet companies at home. My ego boosting news of the day, I have been asked to demonstrate ropework and do general question answering on BDSM at a Fetish Ball. I have attended this particular ball for years, and have demonstrated for them before. It is always very gratifying to have your skills ackowledged by the community at large.

It seems that without meaning too, I have suddenly become very open with my services. I now have several young ladies who call upon me to give them what their significant others are incapable of. I continue my search for a being with whome I think I could share my life, but in the meantime I am very much enjoying providing education, council, and sometimes just straight massive amounts of kinky sex to those around me who need it. I am fortunate to have many dear friends in the scene who call upon me to fulfill this role. I naturally could never be a pro-dom, despite the lucrative offers I have received. I think that the trust, the honest caring, that a true Dominant needs to feel with their submissive would be lost and tainted by money and strangers. Is it odd that I can have lots of friends with benefits but still honestly claim not to have casual sex? I believe not. I am playing around with having a pervertable workshop in the near future. I also, since I am now in a place where it is possible, want to become much more active in the local TNG. If any of the Collarme folk who read this are members I have not met, I look forward to doing so. Be well all, and play safe.

Not your Master:

    I truly regret that when I made this profile several years ago I led off my name with "Master". It wasn't long after I had formed some friendships under this ID that I also took an excellent point to heart from Midori at a presentation. She was talking about how she hates being called "Mistress" by random people who approach her, because she is not THEIR mistress.
    On another note, over the years I have evolved in my attitudes and skills in this lifestyle. As I did, I eventually changed my pseudonym. After doing so I began doing demonstrations and even did some stage work.
    Due to these facts, this ID is completely inaccurate as far as representing me. Yet I will continue using it for the sake of relationships I wish to maintain.

Come see Me, and if you don't like me, meet someone else.

*quoted from TNG e-mail list*

"Every week starting on 06-07-2007 for 10 weeks
9:00pm-12:55pm at The New Club Choices

381 Somerville Ave
Somerville, MA 02143

Additional Directions:
Union Square

Now on Thursday Nights!

There is a new 21+ Fetish Night in town and it's at the New Club
Choices in Union Sq.
Our own DJpet is spinning on the main stage as well as the downstairs
playspace.

The club has opened up the lower level for BDSM play. Please no nudity
(keep it street legal)
and no putting bits into other bits.
The owner of the club is a Somerville Police Officer and has OKed it
with the force.

We are working on doing TNG demos."

So this will be my first real entry, as my last entry was really more an addition to my profile.

I define myself as an Alpha rather than a Dom or a Top. My life, my work, my relationships, tend towards control and care. I was always an officer in clubs when in school. I work in a field as a provider of care and support. I have volunteered as a rape educator and helped set up free rape self defense courses in my home town. My friends tend to look to me for advice and support and education.

I admit, proudly, that I like being looked to. I enjoy power and respect, especially in areas where I believe I have earned it. The point is that I am not a bedroom Dom. Even if we are just friends, my attitude will always be as a Dominant.

I feel the need to clarify that being a Dominant doesn't mean you have to be an arrogant prick. There are a great many people with more skill or experience than I, and I will gladly show them the respect that they have earned by gaining that level of skill. Dominance is fundamentally an incredible, intimate, understanding of respect. Respect can never be demanded; if you demonstrate it, you will gain it.

I have created a new AIM specifically for chatting with lifestyle folk and I also have one on YIM. Send me a message should you wish to chat.

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