I am looking for a submissive live-in. you must read all of this. As you do, you will either see me as part of your path or not. In any event this choice is yours for now.
I live a creative life professionally and privately. I am an architect who likes balance in my life of travel and being at home, excitement with time to replenish resources. I work from home and live in the Texas Hillcountry, so I have the best of both worlds. Quiet and elegance. My house is always filled with music, laughter and positive voices of encouragement. I like for things to be beautiful but also intellectually stimulating. There needs to be a balance of challenges and quiet in My life. I find issues of fairness and diversity very important. My passions lie within a continual strength to enrich My life and those around me as well as an all encompassing healthy lifestyle. So should you.
I seek simlicity within the complexity of nilla love and BDSM structure. Only local females or those serious about relocating should respond, although I invite all friends.
I'm really not interested in all these self-styled pain sluts but rather an adoring submissive that requires structure in her life and a deep seeded desire to know love and understanding.
I'm looking for someone capable of acknowleding and appreciating My Dominant tenderness and nurturing as well as playfulness and fun and demanding lifestyle. Within the D/s lifestyle I will be your strength. Within the nilla, I will be your playmate.
My sub aims to serve perfectly and without detailed supervision in a relationship which nurtures and promotes her growth as a valuable partner. It is essential that she have times to express her creativity, to spend time with family and friends and even just to rest. These needs are not incompatible with her overwhelming need to be owned.
My sub is not a doormat or an irresponsible twit but rather expected to have a sphere of responsibility. I don't need a dead-minded zombie. she looks for ways to please. she is very service oriented, both in and out of the bedroom. That rhythm of a successful day is one we will share together.
I want a sub that has imput and creative ideas, desires and a voice. I do not like to think of myself as having a domineering personality.... I just know what I like and what I don't like and I will not be silent about either. I will courteously voice my opinions unless disrespected.. I am fiercely protective of what is mine and always keep my word to take care of my own...
Shall we dance...
I don't want to be with someone who believes she has to have someone to impose Himself on her every situation she findsherself in. Or who needs Me to convince her. I've never confuseddominance with superiority for anyone and I won't start for you self absorbed slaves either.
I'm more of a quiet Man with hidden depths. The kind of Man who when handed power yields it with sensitivity and creativity, without all the huffing and puffing, but with a knowing twinkle in His eye. Again, I'm NOT seeking a pain slut but rather a feminine female more interested in sensation obedience. Although also knowing that within the right space, you really want to be pushed a little further. I seek a sub that enjoys feeling vulnerable and giving up control. I expect her to take responsibility for her own thoughts and who expects her choices to be respected. Internally knowing I have the final word for direction. I am hoping to create a beautifully strong female with the desire to learn. If she doesn't already know, she should want to learn that she needs structure but wants it within care which is also sustained by shared vanilla interests and values.
We've all experienced being out with someone who offered nothing in terms of conversational skills. This person basically had nothing to talk about. It makes for a very uncomfortable and lackluster situation. Being a well rounded person in terms of knowledge helps to interact with a greater variety of people.
unequal power
What I am looking for is no concern of yours. If you are close enough to reach out and serve, then say so. If there is an attraction of mind or body, then say so. If you are needing direction, then say so...
We/w just spoke and your indecision is just as unattractive as your lack of direction.
This I know. I am willing to shape and mold you, spend the time to scold you, conquer and follow though until I have what you want. What I desire. Until I have something that I can be proud of and know it is truely mine because I formed you into love understanding. A submissive tailor fit to serve me. Because this is what were in my words when I took you in. I do not want an "insta-slave" requiring very lil to no work, without discipline, without foresight. This I know.
