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Is seems many are reading into my profile that I want a Poly relationship. While I was in one before and would be comfortable with one, that is not what I am looking for.

I am ideally looking for a permanent LTR that would be monogamous or at least monogamous within the household. Someone that understands that vanilla comes into play with any type BDSM based relationship. I want real life not fantasy life. I have always enjoyed teaching new people about the lifestyle and learning new things myself. I have found that most of the time I will learn something from each play date.

I enjoy many different aspects of the lifestyle. So a well rounded interest in many different sides of the lifestyle would be beneficial to you.

I have been in the lifestyle for over thirty years and have enjoyed most of what I have learned over the years. I am more then willing to share my knowledge with others, so if you only want to discuss the lifestyle feel free to contact me also.

My ideal partner would be someone that enjoys a Strong Dom that leans toward being a Daddy type. She should also be willing to explore and grow with new experiences.

Just a note to add that I am looking for someone that is full service. Maybe even more service orientated then sexual orientated. I seem to be getting a lot of women that think they will be just a sex slave and not be required to help around the household.

From a friends profile.  I think she got it right.

I do believe that a woman has 2 key responsibilities in life
1) submit to her man and
2) assist, aid and complete Him... 

He also has 2 responsibilities and they are to love his woman and lead her... 
it's that plain and simple
In this day in age, if you do not have a cam, then most likely you are a fake.  Anyone can buy a ten dollar cam anymore.  You might not want to get on it, but you should be able to affort one...LOL

I love how many deaf mutes I seen on here...LOL 

No phone, no address, but I will be there as soon as you send me the money via American Express to get to you...LOL

It has come to my attention the last couple days that someone made a fake profile using my pictures and text a number of months back.  Then wrote a number of women and was very rude to them.  If you hear from this person and remember the exact handle he was using, please contact me and let me know.
I find it very amusing that it seems about half the subs/slaves on here are now either lesbians or bisexuals that want no contact with men.  I can only assume that the trolls on here was not getting enough keyboard action trying to intimidate women to respond to them that they have now decided they will pose as women to try to increase the number of strokes they get.(pun intented)


  I wonder how many skinny acne scared 17 year old boys are having cyber sex with three hundred pound, 39 year old basement trolls still living with mother, as women?
I been seeing alot of sub profiles that claim their dom does not let them talk to other Masters/Doms.  Personally I have no problem with my slave/sub talking to others.  Communications are a good learning tool.  If you are so scared that someone will steal your slave/sub, I would say you are not much of a master/dom. 
It seems that the new slave is not the person she claimed to be.  Lots of issuses and problems that she decided to hide from me.  The position is now open again.
I need to add a few more things about someone that will fit in here.  You need to have a drivers license, you need to be employable and you need to be fairly healthy.  We will not become your caretakers, support you or run you around.  I want a contributing family member.  After you are a family member we will take care of you if your health fails or you lose your job, but we will not become your caregivers from the start.
I need to further define what we would be interested in for someone joining my family.  First off, we are perceived as a normal, funny, vanilla and interesting people to most that know us.  You have to be able to fit in with that.  You have to want a mostly normal life with a dominant HOH man.  



The most important things will be if you fit in with us as a part of the family. Not sexual or kinky but as a person that can laugh, enjoy life, and grow with us as we continue in this life.



I am a very experienced top, so I am not worried about your sexual desires.  I am sure I will be able to handle that.  I am more interested in you as a person.  How you feel about life, how you see your day, what you want for a future.



Feel Free to contact me if you think this might be something you would be interested in.
The losers that take pictures of girls off My Space, make profiles with them and then claim to own them are some of the most pathetic people on here.  What makes a person such a loser in life?
The slave sugaree is with me right now.  She seems to be working out extremely well.  I am still open to friends and the possibilities of one other joining us.  Humor, contentment, and a desire to live a good simple life is of upmost importances.

Something someone wrote about me.  I think she sums me up pretty good.  



"He understands me.  He is funny, strong, discrete, a gentleman. He is also demanding, loves tears of pain, is an unapologetic bastard from time to time "

The Block Button and the Wanabe Dom/Domme

The Block Button is one of the favorite and most important tools to the Wanabe Dom or Domme. With it they control their little world from the intrusion of reality.  They can spout their insults, attempt to demean others, and declare their own superiority over others and know they are safe behind the Block Button.

The true Wanabe does not want a hear facts, theory, or view points.  They believe themselves to be all knowing and nobody can make them believe otherwise.  Nobody would have a chance. They are safe behind their beloved Block Button.

How to tell a True Wanabe?  They will insult your maturity, manhood, call you names, and use foul language to show their belief in their own elevated position over others.  Then hide behind their Block Button.  They are incapable of honest discussion or debate.

They will sit on their fat ass behind their computer and collect wanabe slaves.  They will revel in the fact they have so many and control their online world.  They get upset when people call them players. Because they can not tell the different between their fantasy world and the real world.  They believe being a obnoxious ass is being dominate instead of understanding that they are just an obnoxious ass.

They are out there.  We all run into them once in a while.  Even if you attempt to avoid them, they will go out of their way to make sure you know they are there. They are so sad and funny at the same time. They are a fact of life that we all have to deal with, just like the flies that are a constant bother in the summer picnics. A minor pest at best.

Why would an ex sub try to come back into your life being rude, disrespectful and demanding?  Does she think that you was only a Dom because she was your sub?  It does not change who we are and I, for one, will not accept such behavior. 

Regardless of the nature of the relationship as it sits now, just because you feel you have moved on to a better place.  Never think you can return and be disrespectful to people in your past.  That type attitude might just be the reason is was so easy for your Dom to let you go in the first place.

Respect for others must come first from respect for yourself.  People need to look within themselves to see why they disrespect others so easily.  The biggest problem just might be within yourself, not others.
Why would someone write to you asking your opinion, then block you?  Why ask my opinion if you do not want to know it?  Some people are just beyond understanding.
Let's talk about slaves.  A slave is someone that gives themselves to you completely, with total trust.  Or at least willing to give you that chance to prove you can be trusted. 

 What does that trust include?  They are now your slave, your complete and total property.  Think about that, you now own another person for all intentions and proposes.  What are you going to do with them?

 I know you believe it will be all sex and being waited on hand and foot.  That is possible, but lets look at the other side of the coin.  You are now responsible for that their well being.  Can you support another person?  Can you cloth and feed them?  How about medicial expenses?  Do they have medicial condition that requires medicine or constant monitoring?  Can you afford that for your slave?  The bottom line is can you afford a slave, they sure are a lot more expensive then a cat or dog.

 What brought this all up is that I recently had a couple brag to me about their new live in slave.  This is a couple that can hardly feed themselves and their two kids and keep a roof over their head.  They live week to week.  How are they going to afford a live in slave?  One that has medical needs at that. 

 It is one thing to think you are a Master, it is quit another to actually be a responsible Master. 
Found this and thought I would put it here.

Lucky is the man who wins the first love of a woman. Luckier is the woman who wins the last love of a man. (Unknown)

Been a while since I had a rant in here, so here goes another one. Sometimes I go look at the new members that just joined.  Of course we all know there are lots of fake and scammer profiles put up.  The ones that confuse me are the ones that say they are now taken with the perfect Master/Dom the same day they join.  Just how does that happen? Of course they do mention in passing the name of their perfect Master/Dom that found them within minutes of them joining.  Now I do wonder if maybe this is some form of self promotion by the Master/Dom himself.  It always seems the taken sub turns out to be slim, pretty and will post very nice pictures soon afterwards.  Just makes one think...Hummmm
I read in a lot of women's profiles that they do not response to one liners or short messages.  A first message is only to show someone has a interest in you.  You check the profile to see if you have a interest back. 

I do not believe a serious Dom/Master is going to take the time to write a personal short story to each sub he thinks he may like to learn a little more about to see if there might be a match.  I am not going to write long letters of interest, I will sent a short respectful note showing I have a interest in someone. 

Now if I was a player, I would take the time to write long rosy letters to try and win the selected victim because that is what a player or fake does.  Try and win the victim's affection or interest then move on to another victim.  No wonder so many women claim to run into nothing but player, fakes and wanabes.   

I got another message from a sub I showed a interest in claiming I was a fake and lier.  It seems that she has this great ability for "reading comprehension" .  Because I use the term "We" when I refer to my household then I must be living a poly lifestyle.  Sure glad she make it clear to me just how "smart" she was.  I am sure it would have been a very frustrating and short lived attempt at a relationship.

I think the internet has a great ability to learning and understanding with all the knowledge that is out there.  But sometimes I wonder.....
I am getting a lot of subs writing back and telling me they are not interested because they are not poly.  I reread my profile and the first line is that I am looking for a monogamous relationship.  I said I was experienced in poly and would be open to one that is monogamous within the relationship.  That is mostly for bi women that need to have another woman to fulfill them.  Why would I deny a bi woman to fulfill her desire for another woman?  That would be like telling one of us that we can only live vanilla.  Not very satisfying is it? 

It seems the ability to read has become a lost art and not limited to the guys I keep hearing about from all the women.

I am running into a couple of interesting behaviors of late.  One seems to be that most submissives seem to believe they should have my attention just because they are female.  A large number seem to feel they do not have to make a effort to get my attention.  Just because you are woman does not mean you will automaticlly have my attention.  You need to make a effort to get and keep my attention. 

The other is that a few women seem too want me to give them my whole life background on first contact.  I have no idea if you are even a woman at that point. There are a lot of people that are on here just for the jollies of hearing others behaviors.  I am a private person, my pass relationships with others are private between me and them. I am not going to tell you who my pass partners were or what was done in that relationship.  If you can not accept that, then you would would not show the amount of respect and honor that is expected in this household.

Just something I noticed while scanning slave profiles.  A lot of women post things from others.  A poem or quotes from a book, or such nonsense.  We would rather hear from their own words how they feel, rather then a quote from a book or poem.  I want to know the real slave, not what they read.

Then again just my opinion, but it does come into play if I decide to contact them or not.  I will be contacting only those that are honest in their feeling and real.  Not the best quotes from a book or someone else.

Just a few things I need to clear up.  While I am not overly worried about weight, I do expect you to be physically able to engage in the things that I enjoy both on the vanilla and BDSM side of life. I am phyiscally in better shape then a lot of men twenty years younger then me.  I am active and expect you to be also. 

I am looking for a long term relationship.  I want a life partner.  In the mean time I am still willing to do some training and helping others to experience some types of the scenes they have never done.  But I do not do extreme caging, long term slave training, or extreme humiliations anymore.  I can and will do some of the milder forms, but due to my present living situation I do not have the room, remoteness or time for the more extreme forms right now.

I am not worried about you age as much as most of you seem to be. I am open to any age as long as you are at least legal and physically fit enough to engage in our activities.
 
Humor is a very big part of my household.  We do not live with drama, we are a very laid back and easy going most the time.  If you have to create drama in your life and take everything seriously, then this household is not for you.

And lastly, if you are closed minded to different views of life, and can not at least respect other peoples opinion that you do not agree with, you would not work out in my household.