What I am:
I am a 54 year old White Male
I stand 6'2” tall
I weigh 225 to 230 lbs
I am laid back, so laid back that most people would think that I am not a Dom. But I am. I want what I want and I know exactly what that is.
What I am into:
I like Bondage & Discipline, Humiliation & Degradation. The woman that I get with will be a TOTAL SLAVE 24/7 she must not only want it but NEED it to be able to LIVE it.
Here are MY limits:
I don't do pee games, it is unsanitary and unhealthy.
I don't do scat for the same reason.
I don't do blood play for the same reason.
I am not into Sadism (pain for pain sake is not a turn on for me). Don't get me wrong, I will spank my SLAVE until she cries for no other reason than I want to see her ass cheeks turn red. I will pull her hair, slap her face, I will use a belt on her from time to time but I will not beat on her, I will not do anything that will cause her harm (to break the toy is to lose the toy) no fun in that.
Everything else, and I mean EVERYTHING else is open.
I need a woman that will give herself to me so completely that she will be willing to do whatever will make me happy. her entire purpose in life is to please me, to do what makes me happy and if that means doing a dog then she will do so without question, without hesitation, willingly, joyfully because she knows that that is what pleases me. That woman, the one that can and WILL give herself to me that completely, I will love beyond all reason, beyond human comprehension, so deeply, so intensely that there is no words in any language known to men. When I find this woman my entire purpose in life will be to make her happy, but she must not only be willing to do animals, she must enjoy it because she knows I want it.
What I promise to do for the right woman:
My SLAVE will be my responsibility, that means I will take care of her, her health, (Mentally, Physically, Emotionally) are my responsibility.
My SLAVE will be more than just a SLAVE, she will be my friend, my companion, some one to share my life with, not just some one to use and abuse. If I wanted only that I could find a woman for that purpose very easily. Again don't get me wrong her body will be my property to use and abuse as I see fit, when I see fit, where I see fit, without my having to ask her permission or to say thank you after wards but I want, and need something more than just that. I will value her opinion, as I will highly value her, but the final decisions on any subject will be mine and even if she does not agree with it she will respect it and obey it. I know this sounds contradictory but it is true, the more abuse she can take from me the more respect, admiration and love I will have for her.
To have a relationship like that takes trust, on both sides. Trust takes time to build. If you are not a type of person to have the patience necessary to take the time to build this trust then you are not for me and I am not for you. Trust is absolutely necessary for this type of relationship to work. I will not ask for pictures because what one looks like is not as important as that persons attitude. That does not mean that I will not want pictures after awhile but I will start out by writing first to get to know the person and for the woman to get to know me. This is not a game to me and I will not ask for a casual hookup, (no one night stands, ever. I will not ask for, nor will I accept any offers for a casual play date, this is a thing for life with me).
The reason I want to do it this way, to take the time is because I NEED the woman that will give herself to me, to be my SLAVE, my complete and total SLAVE, my PROPERTY, for me to OWN, to know me well enough to know that she can trust me not to cause her harm, or put her where she could be harmed in any way, hurt yes, but not harmed and like I said trust like that takes time to build, therefore you must know me as a human being as well as a MASTER. I want you to know without a shadow of a doubt that this is what you want, what you need, to be NOTHING MORE than PROPERTY, to obey your owner, your MASTER in ALL things no matter what.
How I discipline:
I will use paddles, straps, belts, floggers, and whips, I will pull hair, slap face and call names, but I will also do all this just for the fun of doing it, I will do these things to you even when you don't deserve it just to hear you cry or scream in pain, and you will never know when it is coming. I will humiliate you, degrade you, use you, and abuse you for my enjoyment, I may go for weeks not letting you have one single orgasm or I might make you have several orgasms several time in a single day.
Bottom line is this:
you must give yourself to me so completely that you WILL do whatever I want you to do, NO MATTER WHAT IT IS, WILLINGLY, JOYFULLY because you know that that is what I want, that is what pleases ME. If it pleases me to use you for my pleasure but not let you have any, then you must submit to that, if it pleases me to give you pleasure over and over and over again and again and again, then you are to submit to that, you will have absolutely no say in the matter. Now that being said, that does not mean that I will not care about your NEEDS. If you can and will WILLINGLY give me what I want and NEED then it is only right that I should see to your NEEDS, do you not agree? Can you give yourself to a MASTER who WILL have you do things that most consider perverted? Twisted? Things like tight bondage, hard spankings, floggings, whippings. as well as other things?
First:
the SLAVE will wear what ever is appropriate for the circumstance, but mostly next to nothing but a collar.
second:
I will start to train you if and when you are completely sure in your mind, heart, and soul that it is me you want as your MASTER and that you WILL DO WHATEVER I WANT YOU TO DO NO MATTER WHAT, without question, without hesitation.
Third:
My SLAVES responsibilities are to take care of me in whatever way I choose, from domestic duties, to sexual service.
Fourth:
Yes you will work outside the house and whatever money you make will be yours, I do not require you to support me in any way whatsoever nor will I ever ask you to do so.
AS for a pic I will send you one when I am sure that you truly want a life with me, what matters first and foremost is our minds and our hearts. When I am sure your mind is set on living a life of a total SLAVE, and your heart is set on me being your MASTER, then a pic is not only right but a necessity. Get comfortable with WHO I am first, can you do that?
As I have said before the woman that I take as my SLAVE will be treasured beyond comprehension, the more abuse she can take from me the more I will LOVE, RESPECT, and ADORE her.
We WILL be more than just MASTER and SLAVE, we will be partners in LIFE.
You MUST be SURE in your heart that you WANT and NEED, ME to dominate you. Right now you want some one, not necessarily me, just some one,
The things said here in this profile is just the tip of the Ice Burg. There is so much more to learn about each other before we can move on to the more enjoyable aspects of the relationship. If you think you have what it takes to serve me, then write, you will never know if we are each others soul mates unless you reach out and start the conversation. Tell me what you NEED, not your fantasies, but what you truly, deep down inside NEED, if you won't, or can't, then how am I to know if I can meet them or not. Take the chance, reach out, I am waiting.
I WILL NOT GIVE MONEY TO ANY ONE WITHOUT FIRST MEETING THEM FACE TO FACE.
If anything here interests you, you can write me at BRGisme@hotmail.com