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	Intelligent, strong headed, but obedient submissive is looking for classy dominant, maybe with a creative profession, someone who is broadminded and interested in culture as much as in the practical sides of life. Submission is an intimate experience for me, something I can only give to someone I feel connected to. I am looking for someone who lives in the west of the Netherlands or not too far from it. I am not looking for incidental contacts, but would like us to be part of each others life. I am looking for someone with a natural dominance, who is calm and sure of himself, who can take the lead and enjoys sex as much as he enjoys dominating. I also prefer to be with a non smoker who takes good care of his body (health and hygiene wise). I am not much of a pain sub. Although I am looking for someone who matches with me physically and personally (character, interests) I also need space, especially in my mind, for my work. I will explain this in personal correspondence if it looks like we get along well. Have a great day.

If you are in a relationship, do not bother to contact me.

More interesting reading material, for both new and more experienced subs I would say...

A quote:

"Its my way or the highway!" or words to that effect, are the mating cry of the common control freak. Doms can have Limits too, but its your Limits that count FIRST. Don't let any would-be 'Dom' tell you differently. Don't let any of the wannabe subs tell you differently either. Where Male Dom/fem sub play is concerned, it's ALWAYS LADY'S CHOICE!"

http://www.submission.org.uk/safety5.html

I often see very angry journal entries of people that feel cheated by 'fake profiles'. True, there are idiots and pranksters out there. It might however also be good to evaluate one's own expectations and actions.

http://arstechnica.com/gadgets/news/2012/02/you-me-and-science-makes-three-the-state-of-online-dating.ars

Bumped into a funny piece of music on youtube called 'The Whip'. You might like it too, for fun or for nostalgia:

Interesting link about consensual inequality that is NOT bdsm... Being slightly frustrated and unsatisfied with bdsm (which always felt like I had to engage in things that do not interest me that much, like the excessive focus on 'play' rather than an exciting bond) I am looking around to see if there is anything out there for me at all... This is interesting, but like with bdsm, it totally depends on with whom you are. I like the emphasis on the relationship though.

http://www.takeninhand.com/node/5

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