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I am looking for a woman who enjoys spanking, obedient training, roleplay, dsicipline and who needs to be controlled both when we are together and when we are apart. I have a lot of rules I like a submissive to follow and want a woman who craves such control.
I have a lifelong interest in spanking and any submissive I see will be spanked regularly. I say this because I do not like submissives who misbehave to "earn" spankings and such behavior will result in punishments the submissive does not enjoy.
Generally I think of myself as giving 3 types of spankings: the first is a lighter more sensual spanking that includes a lot of caressing and is meant only to warm a sub’s rear. With this sort of spanking there is no sense of opprobrium, rather it is done for our mutual enjoyment. The second type is a “maintenance” spanking. It is harder, more painful and meant to remind a young lady that I can punish her more severely when I choose to, but still there is no sense that she has done anything wrong and at the end she would be rewarded for behaving well and accepting her spanking as expected. The final type of spanking is a “punishment” spanking, which is done for a specific infraction, or infractions. In this case I usually insist the submissive explain what she has done wrong, promise to not do it again and then receive her spanking. Once she has been corrected, I typically let her know that she has been forgiven for her misbehavior so that her willing acceptance of her punishment is in itself an act of atonement.
As much as I enjoy an obedient submissive, I will, when I deem they deserve it, gather a submissive onto my lap to let her know she has done well and has pleased me.
I’m a fit, attractive, unmarried 43-year-old man. I am 6’3”, have a full head of hair and no facial hair. Though I am sure that, in many ways, I am an enigma to my friends, I think they would describe me as thoughtful, generous and well informed. I am often relied upon as a reference when it comes to subjects other than the mundane.
My non-kinky interests are reading (history, literature & poetry), NPR, gardening, foreign cuisine, independent cinema, music (jazz, blues, Bob Marley, etc) and I wish I got he chance to travel more often. I’ve been to England and Ireland but I’d love to see Istanbul & Amsterdam especially. I stay fit by walking regularly and through yoga. |
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