Update:
After a great long term relationship, we unfortunately went separate ways, and I moved back to my hometown Vienna as well. So, after quite a long time I am back. Below is my old profile text, and I don't think anything has really changed over the last few years in terms of my interests or attitude, so I will leave it like that for the moment. If you feel curious, have a question or want to find out more, just send me a message.
I am doing this for quite some time now. I am into BDSM since I was 16. I have seen a lot and I definitely have done a lot too ;-). There aren't many things left I haven't done, but there are also some I never will do (mostly for safety or ethical reason, or just simple disgust). Though that doesn't mean I am not willing to try something new (far from it actually ;-)). I know my list of BDSM interests might appear a bit scary at first, but be assured that my life doesn't depend on it. I just used it as an enjoyment-rating system between 1 and 5. So even though some things are mentioned under "lives for" that doesn't mean that I couldn't live without it. The fact is I just love a lot of things (almost equally in fact) in regards to BDSM, which is one of the great things about it - it's just so diverse and rich of options so you never get bored ;-). And besides, every technique is only a possibility and not a must. BDSM is not a list of things that have to be worked through, it is what two people decide for themselves.
I know many so called doms will disagree and insist that they are the ones to decide what to do, but in my opinion they got it very wrong, as that's not what BDSM is all about. It's about two people, equal individuals, making an arrangement to exchange power for some time. What happens in that time is completely up to both of them and cannot be dictated by either one or some general thought of what BDSM is supposed to be.
Yes, I said equal. So if you are looking to be living in my basement in a cage, without any human rights then I am just the wrong person for it, sorry. In my opinion someone's submission is not a right you kind of automatically earn when you are (or just call yourself that way) a dom, it's a privilege. I know what a sub is giving to me and anyone who chooses to be a sub deserves the utmost respect. I certainly know how to appreciate the submission of someone and how to deal with the trust offered. I have never abused the trust someone had in me, and I surely never will.
I am pretty open minded - in general as well as in regards to types of relationships, BDSM interests, experience, height, weight, body type, piercings, tattoos, age, where you live or whatever. I just have to feel a good connection - but without that it's not going to work. It's all about chemistry.
Ideally I would be looking for a long-term relationship that combines Vanilla and BDSM. Although I love BDSM I like the Vanilla world too. Well, I guess I just love life and try to enjoy it as much as I can. And to me life is just not limited to one aspect only. But if things start off as some sort of play relationship and possibly evolve into something deeper later on, that's fine too. I don't rule anything out other than one night stands, as I don't like it, it just isn't suitable for BDSM in my opinion and as it also doesn't reflect the way I am.
I love to be intellectually challenged. I really like good conversations and I prefer people with their own brain and opinion. If you are unable to express your thoughts and are only capable of saying "yes sir" as your sole purpose in life then you probably should look at someone else's profile.
As mentioned earlier, I am not ageist. After all age is just a number, it doesn't say much about a person anyway. So I'd say I'd be looking for someone in the range of 18 to 39. But like I said, chemistry is important, not age. So I wouldn't rule anyone out who is slightly older just because of that fact.
I am a real person and I prefer to deal with real people in the world outside of the computer. I am not into cyber. So, after emailing for some time we should meet up for a chat. If you are only interested in online play than I am not the right person for you.
Of course there is more to me and more to me than just BDSM. A person just cannot be reduced to a few lines of text on a website.
I'd say I am definitely different to everyone else you have ever met before - in a good way of course. Granted, most people think of themselves that they are pretty unique, but if you should ever get to know me, then I am quite confident that you would agree (a bit of advertising just has to be done as well ;-)).
I think that's enough for now. I probably have bored everyone to death by now anyway.
If you are curious and want to know more about me then feel free to drop me some lines. I'd be looking forward to hearing from you.
P.S.: Naturally I have pictures showing my face as well. If we start emailing I will of course send one with my message.
