I Lived my entire life a Dominant Man and never realized that there was an amazing lifestyle that I was meant to be living. It was not until I became friends with a beautiful redheaded Dominant woman who opened my eyes did I begin to start enjoying life and stop being so frustrated in the Vanilla world.
I live for being powerful and in control of everything I do in life. I am of the belief that failure is not an option and strive to be the best no matter what the circumstances, actually the bigger the challenge the better. I am very detail oriented which plays into the way I am with women in every way.
I do not want my need for power and control to be mistaken I am a romantic who love's taking care of a woman. I am a little old fashion in the sense that when I am with a woman chivalry is alive and well so if you do not want doors opened for you, your chair pulled out at a restaurant or my coat being thrown over your shoulders as we walk along the beach than I am not the one for you.
When I am in control in the bedroom (or public ;) love public play) my power and control always revolves around pleasing the woman I am with first and foremost beyond her wildest expectations. I feel I am into and capable of just about everything and paying close attention to a woman's body language, breathing, sounds, heart rate provides the road map of whats to come. I feed off of the energy a woman gives off and really get to know the person I am with. I will push her to her limits and then push a little more whether its in the form of the pain she desires or making her beg me for permission to get off.
I am not here just for sex and I am not here for a one night stand, if all i wanted was sex I do not need to be online I can just hit the bar/club scene like I always have and get my fill. I want to get to know someone on a friend level first and see where that connection takes us. I am not looking for online only and if I feel a connection will want to talk, YES TALK on the phone does anyone do that anymore? If we confirm our connection at that point I would want to meet during the day for coffee or a drink to get to know each other more and see if we have chemistry.
Important to know that No matter how hot our conversations may have been up until this point or how strong the chemistry I will not have sex the first time we meet. I want a woman to feel comfortable and safe with me at all times and to me I don't care if your begging me for it my pants will stay on and this will be the foundation of the trust I want to build. To me any Dominant Person needs to be in full control of them self if they are going to truly being in control of two people.
This may be long winded and not even fit on my profile but I want to be clear at no point did I mention age, race, hair color or body type (Love Older Women but not limited) and that's because I am looking for chemistry so if your interested believe it or not there is more to know about me so send me a message and lets talk.
