In life there is always pain and through pain we learn pleasure. We are looking for a Female or male submissive or slave. Someone to train, to teach and care for. My switch was trained to respond to pain by converting it to pleasure and also in the ways of orgasm control. We are looking for others to train this way and to become a part of our family in the long run, someone that is family orientated, and not adverse to being part of a family with little ones. The children are not involved in the lifestyle and never will be.