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nghtylilbeastie

Malacoda was the angel whom granted pleasure to the humans as God favored them. When Lucifer whispered rebellion, He agreed. Within hell, he flipped roles, becoming instead the Master whom tortured souls for eternity.

You can't know where you are going, until you know where you have been, though sounding foolish from a movie, little can be truer. You must know your heart before you can give up the trust which is required in a D/s or M/s relationship.

I have done this before and was sorely disappointed. I expect similar this time, however despite the pesimism I am sure there are those out there who may actually prove worthy of my attentions and that optimistic view is why I continue to search.

I am a Gorean Master, with a dozen years experience with the lifestyle. I was raised in it and follow it as well.

(For those whom claim it is an impossible lifestyle, it is not the swords, birds, and lizards that make it a lifestyle, it is the Honor, Ideals, and M/s aspect which gives it value to an Individual).

I'll accept only serious messages, if you merely want to be a friend, then say so as that is hardly out of the realm of possibility. If you wish to learn more, say so. However if you merely are replying to my profile to reply, then please, seek elsewhere.
"You seemed so nice. How could you say such a thing?"

Simple. I'm not nice. I never have been, and never will be. I'm honest, blunt, and hold little back. This is who I am, who I will always be. If you are looking for a sweet and nice Man to treat you like a princess, I'm not the person to look to, because honestly, I could care less how you want to be treated.

Do not confuse Kindness with Equality. You are not my equal, you are an animal intelligent enough to speak. You show your pets kindness without them being your equal.

Live it, Learn it, and move on.
Hey look, a journal.

If you can't control yourself, how do you expect to control someone else? Someone who relies on you. I have many friends, submissives, who have found themselves in this situation, men and women, petty and jealous that can't even control their own emotions and reactions, and yet expect the submissive they Dom(me) over to not only do just that, but to obey their foolishness.

I've been on this site for awhile now, with more bewildered amusement as weeks pass.

It's bizarre that an entire website dedicated to the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle, is used more often as weeks pass by supposed S/switches wanting equality in all things except bedroom kink. "Treat me as an equal, but bring the toys to the bedroom."... Being Gorean, my lifestyle swings towards the TPE 24/7 side of things as opposed to simple bedroom play, so perhaps it is more just me being me that finds it funny for people to be looking for kinky fuck buddies as opposed to a relationship based in the lifestyle.

A lifestyle and world that is changing scales in a world of men conditioned to defer to women, and women that have been pushed to believe they are better than all men.

Men are not born equal, nor are women. The basis of nature versus nurture will always win out on the Nature side pushing to the forefront. It is a natural thing in most women to need the control and protection a Man offers. The reverse is true of men desiring the control of Women, yet in such smaller numbers.

Except conditioning of the modern age is pushing the balance in unnatural ways.

Anyways, enough rambling from me. Cheers.