mackin

In all honesty, I'm not really sure what I'm looking for is going to be found on this site. I happen to be of the opinion, however, that if you don't ever bother putting yourself out there to begin with, then you truly only have yourself to blame for not getting what you want out of life. And so I find myself here writing this profile, here goes...

I'm a young, 22 year old, intelligent, wellspoken, attractive (at least I consider so), active, big hearted, submissive gay male. As of late, my primary outlet for the, shall we say, 'seedier' side of my sexual wiles has taken place solely online (mostly through webcam and phone play). I guess you could say I'm maturing in my appetite and I want to experience this in real life now, but more importantly, I want to do it right and in a mutually satisfying manner.

I haven't really enjoyed sexual encounters I've had with men in the past and I'm recognizing it has everything to do with elements of domination missing, the source of where many of my sexual desires lie. As far as the menu of interests go that I see on this site, it appears I'm a bit more on the conservative end of the BDSM spectrum.

To be more specific, I'm looking for a guy that I can genuinely be interested in for their personality and vice versa, but who can then straddle that fine line between buddy and man-in-charge role. I want to be spanked and played with from here to Sunday but be able to embrace you right after you've finished taking me from behind with my hair pulled all the way back. I don't mind cooking and cleaning either, it makes me happy, but it's about my enjoying of being nurturing, rather than the desire to be bullied into doing chores. Hope my dirft is making sense for you readers that have made it this far ;-) That's probably about as explicit as I want to be about my desires on a profile, but I promise to be open and honest to any questions if any of what I've said piques your curiosity.

Ideally, I want a future long term relationship that can incorporate all these elements. Luckily, I don't happen to be delusional and recognize this will most likely not happen anytime soon. Nonetheless, for now, I'm satisfied with learning, meeting new people, and cultivating experiences that help me discover what I enjoy and how I can pleasure others in return. If I had one prerequisite, it would be that if you're contacting me with the hope of arranging some one time hook-up and have no intention of a realistic conversation about interests, expectations, and limitations...kindly refrain from contacting me. I'm in no rush, I don't mind waiting for the right situation/person and patience is not something I lack.

P.S.
Any men in their late 20 to early 40s that have experienced some level of professional success or self-actualization in their lifves are my biggest attraction and strongly encouraged to drop me a line. And no, this is not because i'm looking for a sugar daddy or someone to spoil me. I just happen to be transitioning out of young adulthood and wrapping up my education in the next couple of years and would really like to be surrounded by people who have accomplished for themselves and hopefully learn a thing or two from their company. In a nutshell...mentors welcome here!

~Later Fellas