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Power exchange got my attention long before I knew what sex was. If there was a film on TV where someone got dragged off & tortured in the dungeon it made my tummy tingle.
I've played with BDSM in relationships & clubs on & off since I was a teenager & even been involved with some events but I've never really found a workable balance of kink vs. everything else in my life. I do have other interests: travel, film, vehicles, music, etc, etc. which often pull me in other directions. If I'm working too, there's even less time to explore. I often feel like I'm spreading myself too thin.
I was in an on/off vanilla(ish) long term relationship for a while but kept missing BDSM. I made the decision during 2008 that it was not something I could live without any longer & opened the box again, (that relationship ended in 2009, we are still close). I've put 'switch' in my profile but I'm 80% submissive. I have played as a top but not much. I need to get to know someone & click before I'll go there & it isn't something I'm all that comfortable with yet. I need to feel some chemistry before I'll play at all.
The world is an imperfect place. I live in a town where there's no obvious 'community'. Don't expect too much from me here, I have a real life too. I'm unlikely to become 24/7 before bedtime (is it bedtime yet?). 376 is keen to experiment further as & when the right people & the right situations present themselves. For almost 2 years I've been playmates with Mistress Amazonia & W/we are often out & about at scene events. My status is 'unowned', but I wear her tag anyway...
The spiritual element of subspace is very important. I've often compared play to guided meditation. There are people who find this comparison strange, they are not my tribe.
I've always been more into SM than D/s, though the chemistry with Mistress Amazonia has taken me further in the D/s direction that I thought I wanted to go. I'm now curious about exploring that kind of dynamic as a top. I'm not interested in online or webcam action, so I'm looking for someone real-time in the South of England...
I'm more likely to be posting on IC or FL (this site censors that name if you try to use it in full - pathetic!) than here, tho' I've become disillusioned with all these sites TBH.
I thought I ought to put something here, since other peoples' blank profiles often annoy me...
There are clearly a lot of wannabees & money grabbers on this site, I'm not interested in either (does anyone really think a meaningful connection is likely to start with "don't message me without sending a tribute"? FFS!) so if you're one of them, please save us both some time & just don't bother.
Peace, 376, xxx. |
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