lynn710

if you dont have a pic,  dont email me.  if you dont live near me, and i do NOT mean an hour away, i mean, NEAR, dont email me.  i dont know how i can make it any clearer.

just a suggestion:  be yourself, dont lie, and you will eventually find someone who likes you for you.  if you lie, its not you that they like.

i am beginning to wonder if everyone here is insane.  this is just stupid and a waste of my time!  Just be honest.  with yourself and me.

i have no idea what is wrong with people around here.  since when is it ok for the first thing that you write to someone in an email to be something horrid and vulgar?  wth!  and then expect a reply!  ha!

i give up

this may make me seem shallow to you but i have given you the courtesy of a photo.  please do the same when you email me. 

well, so much for meeting someone.  one day they are there, next they are not.  who knows what happened.  things seemed to be going fine....   so i decided to meet with someone else.  they never showed up.  hmmmm....  if at first you dont succeed, try, try, again.  and again.  hopefully the person im talking with now will work out.  if not,  time for a break from here. 

5/31/11

usually when i write something, it gets me into trouble but i need to say this. 

most people that i have met on this site and in person, (and you know who you are), have no concept of the PROCESS that one must go thru to get to the point where a sub WANTS to be owned by you.  to you its all orders and capitol letters from the moment you meet a potential match.  dont get me wrong, i thought all this time that was the "correct" way.  turns out, i was wrong and so are you.  ok, maybe not wrong, it just didnt really work for me. 

it has taken me years on here to find Someone who i feel DESERVES for me to call Him Sir.  He is kind and honestly seems interested in my life.  He has taken the time to get to know me.  to reassure me.  to listen to me.  to find out what makes me happy.  Weird, huh?  but oh so wonderful.

i feel that being a sub is much more rewarding for all parties if the sub WANTS to be there.  not just afraid not to be.  after years on this and other sites, of meeting with people who do not honor your boundaries or even your humanity, i may have found Someone.  time will tell.  but i am willing to take that time however long it may be.  and make that effort.  because i WANT to.  i have a burning desire to.

even if it doesnt work out, it was worth it.  but wish me luck, for luck hasnt always been with me. 

its not necessary for anyone to email me to tell me im wrong or stupid.  its simply my opinion.  if you do choose to, dont expect an answer.  i have better things to do.  for Someone important.