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Please, please read before contacting me...If you ask me questions that are already answered in the information below I will not answer.
First and foremost: If you message me, keep in mind I am not your sub, and I will not be spoken to a such. This lifestyle is a two way street. Just because you are a Dom/e does not mean you are better than I, it just means you have a different role than I do. I do not submit unless I want to and will not submit to you just because you are a Dom/e. Until I am collered, I am your equal.
I am a submissive single mom and a baker. I run my own business and love what I do. I am also a full time student, working to achieve my Bachelor's degree in Business Administration. I am a smart ass, so don't think it's just you or get all butt hurt. I am very easily amused, have a twisted sense of humor and love to laugh. Basically, I am looking for men and women for long term, but who do not mind if I have more than one partner. I also would not mind a poly household. That may be asking too much, but that is me. I am NOT looking for a trainer, I am submissive by nature but have a stubborn streak. Basically anything else you would like to know, just ask, however, I do not want the normal, "Tell me more about you." Ask direct questions and you will receive direct answers.
Well, after receiving some messages, I better address a few things..
1. I have not been in the "lifestyle" long and have little experience. That being said, I know what I like, what I want, what turns me on, what turns me off, and what makes me throw up in mouth a little.
2. I love people of all ages, however, sexually I do have an age limit. 50. If you are older than this, try me in a few years...if you think you don't look your age, let me know, and I'll see. ( Okay, this sounds really bad, but c'mon, at this point in my life I am not interested in anyone over 50 for more than friends and socializing. It is what it is.)
3. If you are into the 24/7 thing, are Goth or so deep into the Twilight Saga (hurrrrp) that you think you are a vampire, take your sparkly self and move on. Not interested.
4. I am not skinny. I am Irish and Portuguese and there is no fighting my genes. But it looks good on me (so I've been told) Twiggy I am not, and do not want to be. I don't put my weight because it's a number and does not reflect my curves or hour glass figure. I have pics up, you be the judge. To each their own.
I am sure I will add more or change some stuff at a future time, so check back.
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My apologies to all the friends I made on here. Due to health issues, I had to leave for a bit, but CT scans and MRI's are clear..so life continues...... |
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So far I have conversed with many interesting people. I have also quickly deleted communications from people who are obviously mentally unstable, or did not read my profile.
One thing I am having a hard time grasping is the sense of entitlement that Dom/e's have. Not all mind you, but the majority of them on here seem to have the preconceived notion, and quite erroneously, that they are better than a sub. Just as a sub is only as good as his or her Master/Mistress, the opposite is also true.
I am not looking for anyone to "save" or "rescue" me. Besides, how do I know that they really are who they say they are? On trust alone? I think not. Just as I would have to prove myself worthy of service, one has to prove they are worthy of my services. When and if the time comes that one CAN provide for me and we have entered into an agreement as to how that will work, then fine. Acceptable.
I realize I may seem a bit difficult on stubborn, but I think it is best to have the pre-collared boundaries set.
That is all. |
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