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I'm very passionate about the things that interest me, so I tend to think of myself more as an artist, even though I have a talent for things technical. Because of this, my personal interests tend to be a mix of art and intellectual pursuits. For example, I like to travel to exotic places, such as the far east, and my reading reflects some rather eclectic interests, ranging from eastern philosophy to physics. In short, I'm not the kind of man that is satisfied with an ordinary life and my views in D/s and BDSM reflect this, too.
I hope for a relationship based on honesty and and that is also firmly grounded in D/s principles. The primary key word in the first sentence is "relationship" which, to me, means I want to "relate" to my chosen one is as her strict, but loving master and teacher. I say "strict" because I'm not looking to play games but, rather, introduce her to a world of rules and rituals that will define her life with me. Within these confines I'll keep her safe and secure, but she must accept that the price she pays for this is obedience and a desire to serve.
My ideal submissive will open her heart to me and, with complete honesty, let me see into all the dark corners and understand all her deepest desires and fears. She will let me experience her as both a woman and a girl, a lady and a slut; sharing every aspect of her feminine qualities. She will keep no secrets from me and I will keep none from her. Yet, she will understand that, while I will treat her equally on an emotional and trust level, I will be her absolute master on matters physical, sensual and sexual.
In the BDSM realm, I have a variety of things that interest me but, to be brief, let me say I prefer spontaneity and enjoy holding a submissive in a state of anticipation about what might come next. These surprises will always be within her defined limits (which she'll be forced to discuss frankly and review, as needed), but I want her to be willing to completely relinquish control of her sexual life to me and be expected to obey without hesitation or resistance. She should expect prompt, corrective punishment for infractions, as well as proper comfort and aftercare once she's been properly disciplined.
While pain can be an instructive contrast to pleasure, I'm primarily interested in using a submissive in pleasurable ways which, when she's earned it, includes her own pleasure, not just mine. Since I'm very tactile by nature, this will include the pleasure of exploring her body with my fingers, lips and eyes. To help me savor her body, I'll expect her to open herself fully to me to be teased, penetrated and probed and she'll enjoy the sensation of this kind of sensual violation using various kinds of plugs, dildos and vibrators. I have a fascination with fucking machines, such as the sybian, so I would enjoy finding a slut with the capacity to tolerate intense, forced orgasms.
Control is a primary theme for me, so I like defining rituals to govern how a submissive bathes, dresses, and displays herself in my presence, both as a way for her to show devotion and respect as well as allowing me to savor her feminine charms. I'll enjoy keeping her undressed and using various forms of sensual bondage to put her on display as an object of pleasure. Some "classic" forms of bondage, such as corsets, interest me, as well as more modern restraints, such as leather harnesses and binders. I believe that bondage is a art form that, when practiced skillfully, helps summon and display a woman's beauty in its rawest form. And, like the Japanese tea ceremony, the rituals that surround how a woman is prepared for, and then sensually bound, is just as important. I can't claim to be as expert in this area as I'd like to be, but practice does make perfect and, with the right subject, it could be a wonderful journey.
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Like any man, I enjoy a good suck and having savored tis pleasure has spoiled me for allowing a submissive to offer anything less than complete devotion to this craft. While there are many different ways to get sucked off, my favorite is what I call the long, slow suck. Many times, especially when there is a lot of passion involved, an average suck can be a rather quick affair. The submissive, eager to please, stokes and sucks with a greedy abandon. Yet, I sometimes find it hard to relax and enjoy such an energetic approach.
Instead, I prefer to pick a lazy afternoon and lie back on the bed, my freshly-bathed suck slut lying next to me, and take a short nap. She has been instructed to allowing me a sufficient interval to sleep, then slowly draw my limp cock up into mouth and gently caress me. I've been told I often start to become erect in her mouth before I wake again, but it's a nice, dreamy sensation just to awaken to the soft touch of her mouth and tongue. In addition, she is cautioned that she must maintain only a gentle contact with my cock and not try to force me to cum any sooner than I'm ready. Further, on penalty of punishment, I expect her to keep me in her mouth for as long as I choose to savor her delicate massage and she is not to break contact until permitted to release me. Note; this takes a bit of experimentation to find a position for her that permits this, but well placed pillows work nicely.
Done properly, it's possible to completely relax and let the urge to cum just build naturally and slowly. When release does come, it's a delicious sensation that is not at all forced and feels more like a flow than a spurt. If my sensual slut can maintain her relaxed composure and just continue to gently caress me while this happens, the sensation of my cum flowing into her mouth can seem to last for several minutes. It's a wonderful way to enjoy an afternoon, or an evening and any slut that can master this is a keeper, in my opinion. |
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