Lilus0816

My boyfriend and I are looking for a very special girl. Let me tell you a little bit about us, then I will go more into what we are looking for.

I am a BBW - plus-sized, but gorgeous. Pierced, tattoo'd punky/urban goth look. Long black hair, fair skin and dark, expressive eyes. He is also a big guy - comfy would be the word - and he is complete geek-chic with black nerdy glasses, spiky blond hair, goatee and Nintendo t-shirts. We are laid-back, intelligent, fun, totally non-judgemental, easy-to-get-along-with people who believe in experiencing life to the fullest, in all it's glory and sensation, be damned with the rules and restrictions of our theocratic society. We enthusiastically embrace the fetish and bdsm scene; he is dominant and I am submissive. Our sessions include sex (duh), slapping, biting, worship, bondage, foot fetish, flogging, candles, roleplaying, feathers, homework, handcuffs, orgasm denial, servitude, etc, etc, and whatever else fun we can come up with. Important key note here: WE ARE SAFE. We ALWAYS use a safe word and while boundaries may be tested, they are NEVER broken. We are also both drug, drama and disease free.

Okay, that being said, what we are looking for is a girl to join us in our fun. I would feel more comfortable having a larger girl, plus-sized or BBW, doesn't matter to me. However, if you are interested in joining us and you are NOT BBW/plus-sized, please email us anyway. This is not a deal-breaker, by any means. Race is also of lesser importance to us, but we prefer white, asian or half-asian girls. Favorite looks for both my boyfriend and I include nerdy girls, pierced and tattoo'd punky and goth girls, retro girls, stuff like that. We are interested in ages 22-30 only. We are looking for femme or lipstick only. Sorry, we are not interested in butch. Also, we are definitely looking for someone who is bi, who likes men and women and is willing to have sex with either (we use protection, don't worry, but we can go into that later).

We are definitely looking for either a dominant girl (to dominate ME, not my boyfriend; he's 100% dominant) or a girl who can switch. If you have no experience with bdsm but are curious about it, this would be an ideal situation for you. Just please have an open and non-judgemental mind and be willing to explore your sexuality in an a-typical way. Again, I cannot stress enough, we are completely safe. The worse I come away with in our sessions is hickeys and bruises. We are not into pain just for sake of pain. Pain and other sensations is used only the contrast and, thusly, heighten sensation and pleasure. I am a complete sensate(sensation junkie) and my boyfriend is learning to be.

We are not looking for a polyamory or polygamous situation, but we also don't want this to be a meaningless, one-time fling. If we find someone that we like, we would like to meet you in a non-sexual atmosphere first (going and getting coffee or something), both to make sure that you are who you say you are (and to show you that we are who WE say we are) and to make sure that we are all comfortable with each other, attracted to one another and that there is chemistry. If all that clicks, we would like to become friends with you and have a potentially on-going sexual relationship, in addition to friendship. You would never be with either of us alone; it would only ever be both of us at the same time. Also, if at any time you felt uncomfortable you would, of course, be totally free to go your separate way, no questions asked. We would also ask the same courtesy, however.

There is no concern about drama or jealousy issues, both of us are totally secure in our relationship. We trust each other and would like to trust you as well. We can host at my apartment or go to you. All the rest of the details we can discuss over email.