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Sadist looking for a non-sexual submissive play partner who is a masochist. I am married to a submissive who is not a masochist and knows that I am looking for one. Any relationship will be strictly "I give you pain, you receive it." I do NOT do CBT or blood play with anyone but my husband, so please don't ask. I'm strictly a hitty, Wartenburg wheel lovin' kind of gal. If you're into houseboy work or giving pedicures that'd be a bonus.
I do not usually dress up to play so don't expect the latex Dominatrix of your dreams. I'm generally friendly and intelligent and easy-going and don't care for protocol. I expect several meet and greets in person and lots of conversation before any toy gets taken out of any bag.
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It's like this people...
There's the Internet. And then there's real life. Real life where gas is almost $3 a gallon, the dogs need washing, the cat barfed on the bed, your boss gives you an impossible deadline and the toilet is plugged up.
Oh, and I have PMS.
I lucked out with my husband. Indeed - I feel like I won the biggest PoweBall ever. EVER. Except that he's not a pain slut, which is why I'm here (and looking around in real life in our local community). And yes, he does know and of course it was discussed and I would not do it if it would make him unhappy.
Some would not consider us a "twew BDSM couple" because I do, occasionally, get my own glass of water. Anyone who actually knows us though and interacts with us completely gets that I'm a dominant and he's a submissive.
I don't know where I was going with this really.
Oh yeah. Online versus real life. I've had my share of chat fun and online flirtations, but when it comes down to it, you have to be able to take the connection you make online and test it in the real world.
In other words... If your "dream" is of Trinity with a bullwhip and you in panties and a ball gag 24/7, well....
Wake up. |
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