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New to the lifestyle. I joined to learn and test out ideas of what suits me.

I'm asked, just about every time someone contacts me, what I'm on here for.  I am new, I know I put that in my profile, but I have a vague idea of what I want.  I want to learn. I want to see through others what I want and what I don't.  I don't want to be humiliated, so usually when someone sends me a message with lines such as: "bring me my paper with your teeth, crawling, and be my footstool"  I tend to just delete them.  If I wanted to be treated as if I were less than human, I would have 'liked' that or 'loved' it...but I didn't. 

So what have I discovered? What have I learned so far? Hmmm...

I am not a mess. I see women on here that need someone to be a dom in every aspect of thier lives because they cannot control anything by themselves, I, am not one of those women.  I have a very good career, and I am good at what I do.  I work out at least 6 days a week. I eat a balanced and healthy diet.  I don't think that someone needs to dominate those things, I have enough consideration for my prospective dom to take care of these things so that he is presented with a sub who knows that her body is not only her temple, but his moreso, not only does a dom expect you to take care of yourself, but if you do it without direction, he can focus on where you actually need his guidance. 

Well, that's all I have for this journal entry.  I hope this answers some questions, but I'm sure it'll open up the floor for more.