Well I guess this is where I begin to update my next level of my life! I'm done the Vanilla level, I tried the submissive side (that did not work to well), I'm now knowing that I'm very much a Dominate Male. I've been in the lifestyle for over 11 years and have met the women, men and couples who thought it was only about sex!!! They are all so wrong! It goes beyond that, its more about the Mind and how the trust issues build up and relate to the bodies needs more than the toying the streets for a sex star. Your all extras in this life and should be your own person who is ready to chance a change in your life......... Are you all with me with this........