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Before reading this profile, keep in mind; I am not interested in men who are older then 35-40 and/or men with grey hair, people with an empty profile, people without a picture of their face or people who only contact me to score sex with me. I'm also not interested in men with a footfetish and poop & piss is not my cup of tea. Oh and please, I want you tell me a little about yourself OUTSIDE of
BDSM (work/study, hobbies, interests, activities etc.)
If you are one of those men and you do message me, do NOT expect me to message you back (in a friendly way). I won't waste any time AT ALL on fakers and crazy/dumb messages, you're only wasting your own time, by doing so.
Still reading huh? Well at least I hoped you did read the lines above this one. Here is my profile.
What's to tell? Well, I have been into BDSM my whole life. Ever from the day I knew it existed, I wanted to do this. But I've always hidden this desires until I've had my last relationship. I experimented with some things. This only confirmed to me that I really DO love this. So I tried some more on a BDSM-event, which felt great..
I am really openminded and very curious about a lot of things and there is a lot I would like to try except for things that leave permanent damage/scars, coprophilia, urolagnia and of course anything that is forbidden by the Dutch law (like involving animals and children).
Most of the time I am a Dominant Sadist (in relationships) and/or a Sadist (outside relationships).
The difference between dominance and sadism to me lies in the fact that sadism doesn't involve having control over another person, but just being a Sadist means (to me); bringing pain, humiliation, sensation play, sensory deprivation etc. etc. to another person (most of the time a masochist).
Why I don't feel the need to be a Dominant outside of relationships, you ask?
Well, the answer is very clear and simple. In order to be a Dominant over somebody, I need to know their character and I start asking myself; What do they do? What triggers them and what doesn't? How can I make them feel small (but still worthy)? How do I gain their trust and keep it? etc. Honestly, I believe that the only way to find those things out are to build a strong (friendship/Ds-)bond/relationship with the other person.
Anyone who's ever seen my profile over here also sees the fact that I'm a switch (apparently). Well, don't get fooled by that.
I can be submissive sometimes, but it is extremely hard to make me feel this way, and if it doesn't happen from the very start, it never happens at all. Hardly ever do I feel interested or even impressed by these so called male Dominants, the only thing they do is either getting on my nerves or making me laugh my ass off over their poor attempts to make me feel small, submissive. I even laugh men straight into their faces in daily life who think that they can be dominant towards me and think that I'll obey. In fact, it is more the other way around; I'm more likely to boss around people then get bossed around myself. And yes, I'm fully aware of the fact that dominance is a whole lot more then just bossing around.
But hey, I've felt it only once before in my life. And if you're not offended by what I said before about 'male Dominants' you'll probably realize that this probably wasn't about you. So if I didn't scare you away and you got interested, don't hesitate to message me. If you don't shoot, you can't miss, hm ;-) ..
Now a little bit about my 'normal' life..
In the weekends I do voluntary work for a local musicvenue. That's always a lot of fun to do. Discovering new bands and seeing them for free, generally nice co-workers and I get to meet a lot of new people over there..
In the weekends I'm not working at the venue I'm going out, checking out jamsessions, local gigs, local bandnights and in the future I hope adding fetish/bdsm-parties to all this.
Besides that I also love to read. Mostly (semi)-scientific magazines (such as; Quest and Quest Historie) and books about history, ancient cultures or some book about music. Besides that I also like to read fantasy and (semi-)educational books.
I also like to watch movies and tv. As long as it's not some stupid teen-movie or romantic drama/comedy I can watch almost any movie genre, but I prefer fantasy, historical-based (except most WWII), action, horror and (psychological) thrillers. When I watch tv, I mostly watch Discovery Channel, National Geographic Channel, Animal Planet and Comedy Central.
Last year I started taking keyboard-lessons and I think I'm making quite a progess, if I do say so myself.
As one can see, music and history/ancient cultures are a big part of my interests.
I'm not very active with sports, but I try to live an active lifestyle as much as possible without excersising on a regular base. Sometimes I go swimming and besides that I always try to walk and take the bike as much as possible .
Right now the only one I share my life with, is a cat named Lucifer and I'm planning to keep it that way, until I ever change my mind. I love my life as it is right now.
Which means that I'm NOT looking for a (24/7 or TPE-)relationship, and still not even sure about even getting into a "love-relationship".
Wanna see more pictures, read about my fetishes/things I'm interested in in BDSM and sex, check out my -profile:
http://.com/users/463697
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