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I am new to the D/s lifestyle, and would like to break into it easily so that I don't become overwhelmed...I'm interested in mainly online-only encounters... one may turn into a RL meeting, but please respect that I will need to chat with you through this medium for awhile before I'd be comfortable with arranging anything. I'm also interested in simply talking candidly with more experienced enthusiasts to learn more about the lifestyle and, I suppose, myself as well... that seems to be what all this is really about.

I suppose what would interest me most in a real-life D/s relationship would be duality... seeming vanilla for all intents on the surface, but keeping in mind how we are behind closed doors. To me, mental submission is more stimulating than physical... I'd love the simple domination of being made to cook and fix drinks for my master or mistress, to sit at their feet like a dog, following along on a leash at all times. However, they would still stimulate my intellectual needs, either by reading to me as I massage their weary feet or rewarding my good behavior with a trip to the planetarium... I would prefer to be an adored pet rather than an object, belly rubs and all. I also dearly love to be carried and held, and as I am quite small this shouldn't be a problem. <3

If you'd like to chat more, please send me a note and we'll take it from there~

p.s. Because I've been receiving a lot of mail on these subjects, I'll clear things up: I'm not interested in starting anything with anyone much older than me, as I have never found the daddy-dom thing to be personally arousing... and as far as I'm concerned, anyone old enough to be a father, say, 40 and up... I can't really think about them in a sexual way. Mental barricades, maybe, but that's how it is.

I am also not into extreme pain, as I've said before D/s is more of a mental thing to me.