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Overall, I am a bit of a nerd girl looking for companion who make me laugh, who I can talk to, share with and care for. I want to enjoy exploring and playing. I want to be treasured and giving.
I enjoy the mental and emotional aspects of D/s and understand the use of punishment but I am not a painslut - so please move on to the next profile if you are looking for someone to beat silly and humiliate.
I do like many Top type activities and would love the opportunity to learn and practice more. Again, though, even from that side I am not looking for someone solely for pain.
I like a little sarcasm in my partner but am not interested in those who just enjoy being mean. Clever goes along way with me.
Physically, I am short with a smallish waist, larger hips and breasts. I have long dark hair with which I often battle. At this point it is winning. I am not a super model but am not icky looking either. I do clean up nice but on a day to day basis I keep it pretty simple. Even though I like dressing up sometimes - If you are looking for a super frilly hair and make up girl - I am not your best match. It seldom takes me more than 15 minutes to get ready and leave the house.
Being submissive doesn't mean I have intellectually checked out and I hope it would mean the same for anyone I was with. I expect that to be respected. I enjoy the use of my mind and enjoy being challenged. Please don't read that as I want drama or that I feel the need to be sassy and bratty - that kind of thing is not interesting to me. I just mean that for me - submission doesn't mean that I am looking to be broken or stripped of my personality.
I want to be with someone(s) I can trust and be honest with. I'd like guidance and affection.
I am looking for someone I can respect and enjoy, someone who is a non-smoker and not too into the club scene. Although I do love going dancing sometimes I love movies, gaming and good times with close friends a lot more.
I do have a partner at this point so I am not looking for my one true love/Dom(me)/sub/lifepartner etc.
However, there is room in my life for like minded loving individuals
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This has been a very peculiar week on CM. Honestly, I cannot believe some of the responses I have received.
Please do not tell me about your penis, the most humiliating thing you want to do to me, how hard you have been on your slaves nor offer me a collar before we have exchanged 20 words. It is gross and I value myself too much to turn any part of me over to an insensitive, foolish jerk.
There have been two or three very lovely letters which have kept me from shaking my head and running for the hills.
Here are the answers to some of this week's queries:
Yes, I have been collared. It was a long time ago, I learned a lot and mostly had a terrific time, and no - I will not give you graphic details.
No -I will not move to where ever it is you live and begin a 24/7 life as a "true slave". If I am ever inclined to do so - it will not be with someone I have never met or spoken to.
No - I don't expect to engage in serious anal play. Why would you even ask that before you have said a proper hello?
If I have to pick - I would say heteroflexible. I am more sexually attracted to men but will not rule out the possibility that I might find a woman I am interested in. Also, since I am not against threesome playing on occasion - it comes in handy to be able to find some women fun to play with, as a rule though, I prefer the guys.
No - I will not generally answer your email the moment you send it. Sometimes I won't get to it for a few days. Pouting about it, or threatening punishment or explaining your disappointment in my "poor performance" is ridiculous. I have a pretty busy life and have to prioritize my time.
No - I am not looking for "the one". I have a partner and intend to keep him. That doesn't mean I can't or won't have other relationships. It just means I won't lie to him about it. There are things I am interested in that he isn't and some things we want to explore together. It isn't so unusual.
I do have to thank several people for the hilarious messages though - wow - some of you write the darndest things. |
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