knotsure1

Are you seeking more than kinky sex or a quickie fling? Do you want to explore the fulfillment of submission? Is this more than just a mind game for you? If the answer is yes to these questions then read on.

If you are a sub reading this profile I am sure your inbox is constantly full with Doms telling you in ther first note that they are the one and only one for you. That isn't Me. The truth is that when I first start talking with a sub I have no idea if I am the right Dom for her or is she will meet My needs. I am not in any hurry to rush things and want both of us to take our time time make sure that this choice is right for both of us.

I am an experienced Dom seeking an ongoing relationship with regular in person training sessions (every other week or so). I am not into phone sex or on line only situations. This search has been a lesson in patience. I have met many great submissives, but haven’t found the right lady that meets My needs and for whom I can be the right Dom.

I am married. My wife thinks BDSM is sick and does not know I am doing this. I realize that this is unacceptable for many subs which is why I am up front about it.

I am analytic have a quick wit and dry sense of humor. I am goal driven including My approach to being a Dom. I take being a Dom seriously but realize that humor is a key part of all human relationships (including BDSM). I am intense person and confident but realize that I make mistakes and willing to admit when I do.

I have trained brand new subs and understand the importance of taking things slowly and allowing her to develop. My sub and I develop a set of goals for her and then I develop a training program to help her reach those goals. I am quick to reward My sub’s hard work and punish her when she behaves poorly. I don't put up subs that play games and have little tolerance for subs that do not follow through with what they say they will do.

I am a sadist and enjoy inflicting pain for pleasure (I ALWAYS respect limits of course). There are very few “must have” things that My sub must be willing to do. A Dom/sub relationship develops over time, what that relationship includes will grow as both people get comfortable and develop trust.

It is My belief that a sub chooses to serve and is always free to change her mind. Therefore, it is My responsibility to make sure that My sub finds fulfillment in her submission. she should want to serve Me. she may not enjoy every activity that she does to please Me, but her experience as a whole should make her feel that she has made the right choice to serve.

If you think that what I have to offer is what you need I would love to hear from you!