i seek the ability to be exactly what i am in any setting, tweaked of course to
allow for the outside world but a balance and an understanding between He and i
that NEVER wavers. Once i allowed myself to realize that this is at the core of
my being i understood that i can never push it away. It cannot be stifled.
i am under no illusions about what i am and what i need to thrive and crave it like nothing else.
i am extremely loyal and faithful, intelligent, sensitive, fully realizing that i cannot live my life completey without this overwhelming, intense feeling of belonging to a strict but caring Dominant man, who won't hesitate to use all available physical stimulants (pain & pleasure mix in so many ways) to sculpt my submissive nature. I have no intention of a compromise of my existing, external priorities (i.e. professional carreer, family, friends, etc). On the contrary: You will always encourage me to be the best i can be in the vanilla world. When i am, with You, however, my focus will dramatically change, and there won't be anything which could stop me from being totally devoted, always eager to please in any way desired, as giving pleasure is a pleasure itself. i strive for excellence.
Of course i have pictures.....i will happily share them when i am comfortable.
i think this is me
The healthy submissive is capable of, and thrives on, intense, intimate, emotionally open relationships. This is often evident in the number of nourishing, sustaining, and life affirming friendships she makes over the years.
The healthy submissive is a giver. She often needs help to ration herself because her impulses nearly always lead her to want to do good for others.
The healthy submissive is capable of intense joy, especially in the context of a sustaining relationship.
The healthy submissive finds significant relaxation when properly related. She is at ease in that place.
The healthy submissive has finely tuned interpersonal sensitivity. She is reactive to subtle shifts in the emotional tone of others.
The healthy submissive has a fluidity of self, a flexibility that enables her to adapt to changing circumstances.
The healthy submissive is playful.
The healthy submissive has no more than the usual cultural conflicts about her body, and its goodness and beauty.
The healthy submissive takes pride in her accomplishments.
The healthy submissive accepts herself as she is, knowing that while her culture values independence and self sufficiency, she has strong dependency needs and that there is no inherent "wrongness" about those needs.
The healthy submissive seeks nourishing relationships.
The healthy submissive, in accepting herself "as is" is tolerant of others. But neither will she allow anyone to tell her what her truth should be.
The healthy submissive hunger to be the object of an intense and penetrating understanding. When her nature is understood and she is held in a loving and firm frame, her devotion is almost limitless. The healthy submissive has an enormous capacity for devotion, from which springs her service
i look forward to hearing ONLY from serious, Dominant men, OVER 40 at minimum, who understand the dialogue here.
