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"The place that we find our deepest peace is the place that we discover our greatest strength"  ~Old Japanese proverb~

"What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room.

"Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?"

"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real."

"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.

"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."

"Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or bit by bit?"

"It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become.... It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept.

Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."

~The Velveteen Rabbit~

?By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.?

I am passing this on to you because it definitely works and we could all
use a little more calmness in our lives.

By following simple advice heard on the Dr. Phil show, you too can find inner peace.

Dr Phil proclaimed, "The way to achieve inner peace is to finish all the things you have started and have never finished."

 So, I looked around my house to see all the things I started and hadn't finished, and before leaving the house this morning, I finished off:

a bottle of Merlot,
a bottle of White Zinfandel,
a bottle of Bailey's Irish Cream,
a bottle of Kahlua,
a package of Oreos,
the remainder of my old Prozac prescription,
the rest of the cheesecake,
some Doritos and
a box of chocolates.

You have no idea, just how freaking good I feel!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR

? Do no harm to the earth?

she is your mother.

Being is more important than having.

Never promote yourself at another?s expense.

Hold life sacred; treat it with reverence.

Allow each person the dignity of his or her labor

Open your home to the wayfarer.

Be ready to receive your deepest dreams; sometimes they are the speech of un-blighted conscience.

Always make restitution to the ones you have harmed.

Never think less of yourself than you are.

Never think that you are more than another.

Believe in unconditional love, it is a reality, it is a treasure."

The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen.
Just listen.
Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention?.
A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

It is not the kiss of the whip, but the whispered word... To please one's flesh lasts but a moment; to touch one's soul lasts a lifetime.... ~Damon Dark~

"Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy of life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself..... The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer--because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut.  ~Ayn Rand~