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dalit
R7

Happily taken in R/T for 7+years. 


We are interested in the right female submissive. . . with the potential of developing something more with us.

For a take on the why/ what of a poly relationship with us:

I'm a voyeur.  So I'd like to think that there is another exhibitionist
out there, that would like the friendship and sisterhood of sorts I
offer along with the Dom /sub relationship He offers. 

I'm
straight and not particularly looking to be intimate with another
woman.    We had someone online and it went well.  My contact with her
was as someone who knew all that was happening and we could openly
discuss things, as someone who watched when He interacted with her, and
as someone who occasionally topped her through direction only.  But she
was too far and her life too complicated to take it to in-person.


We'd love to find that again, and hopefully with someone that could be
in-person as well.  So obviously as the sub, I'm a big part of what we
are offering. . but I think the connection with Him would be very
important.


The specifics:

My Dom and I are looking for a submissive (please be at least in your mid-20’s) to have over for a PLAY DATE or 5. I want to watch Him dominate another woman in front of me. My contact with you would be minimal. (I’m a watcher and not bi.) This can be either a casual encounter or the start of something more. We’d all have to see how we mesh. We’d need someone who is discreet (we both have non-BDSM sides to our life). And NO DRUGS or other useless drama please.

Him – A caring, strong, experienced HypnoDom (ask me if you don't know) with a full woodshop full of toys and ideas 

me – a submissive, BBW, voyeur who enjoys rope bondage 

you – a submissive female with an exhibitionist streak who enjoys some pain, humiliation and ROPE BONDAGE and more depending on what you are intoWe would like to start online first with the get-to-know-you.  Then we can talk about meeting.  Please contact R7 (friends list) or me through here. 

My Dom has asked that I not include a picture of myself here - sorry. 




Please note I'm not on often - so please don't be offended if you don't get a response right away.

BDSM furniture and toys: http://geocities.com/sadistic_furniture/

I always find myself surprised that so many people in this scene, who are often dealing with a society on a whole who doesn't understand us and who thinks our ways are wrong because they are different, will then turn around and act like others in the scene are wrong because they are different from their own.

My favorite thing about being in the 'scene' is that He and I are making the rules for what we do and do not do/like/think.  And it doesn't have to fit into anyone else's set of rules.  

Most of the 'outside' world would see me as being somewhat in charge of our relationship. Though He is definitely and obviously a dominating personality. They see me as being very patient but no-nonsense. Those that know about this side of us are always surprised to find out I'm submissive, though they could NEVER see Him as being anything but dominant.

I see that I am NEVER dominant with Him sexually. And not often in private, but in public I will 'hold my own' and either way I will get into it when He pisses me off. We make major decisions together and I hold an equal vote in our life.

But I still see Him as being fully my Dom.
Another old post of mine:

(2) 

Thank goodness for our shop.

It was a stressful day. Teen drama - computer nonsense and finally He looked over and (eyebrows raised) asked if I wanted to go to the shop.

It's 1000 square feet of wood and machinery. With a pulley hanging from the ceiling beams that proved very useful.

MMmm, ball gagged and blindfolded with hands tied to pulley over head, legs tied to spreader - wide, then breasts tied to pulley - arching back. All the while the flat kat and the paddle flying and 'toy' getting intimate.

Then on my back on a small wood dolly, ankles on one end of rope fed through pulley - breasts tied to the other end of that rope. Ball gag now replaced by something more . . .um. . personal. "Toy' pounded in hard.

The kind of completion that brings tears.

Now that's stress relief!!

Who's next?

Some previous journal entries (from another site).  See these as an example of what we are like (in scene).

(1) Feeling sooo good this morning.

Just when I thought I was going to bed frustrated He reached over and started me up.

I ended up face down on the bed, feet spread extra wide and tied to our home-made spreader bar (need to get a pic of that up - the spreader bar, not me), hands tied tight behind my back and that tie connected to my collar. A ball gag in my mouth and tied extra tight. With rubber bands around the base of my breasts.

Being flogged by my favorite toy and a thin dowel of wood as a switch. Then rode hard in the, um. . less used end.

I feel like I can feel every nerve ending. What a wonderful reminder of why I'm a subbie!