Update I found an amazing Sir and we have been together long enough that would like to play with a female sub so I'm back on to find the right girl.
The right sub for is female, probably no older than 35 and just looking for a good time (one off or semi regular) while we aim to be friends with this person (baring one off's obviously!) this person wont become a permanent part of the relationship, though they may become a permanent friend. All meetings will be safe (physically, emotionally and sexually - i.e. condoms are an essential), with limits pre-agreed and in a hotel. My Sir and I both travel with work so there are no problems meeting up with someone based elsewhere. The right sub for us will respect herself outside the bedroom, be good vanilla company and most importantly honest as trust cant exist without honesty :)
My Sir is gorgeous and I'm considered good looking (I feel so vain writing that!), we are both tall but we don't have a physical type in mind, though my Sir doesn't like too many tattoos. Its much more about the connection than anything else. In terms of what we like that's fairly flexible, my Sir has a bit of sadistic streak and I'm into the rough/humiliation side of things more so there is a lot of flex. Our sub would be serving us both during meets. Outside of sexy stuff we are both pretty normal, upbeat and very much in love (very cheesy, I know!).
Thank you for your interest and good luck finding what you need! :)
Thought I would put together a frequently asked question space. “Is that you in the pictures?” That is me in the pictures. “Do you smoke?”/ “Do you mind smokers?” No I don’t smoke and I’m completely uninterested in smokers "You have been on here awhile. Is your profile still accurate?" I am aware I have been here awhile but my profile is still 98% accurate. “Do you think women are equal to men?” I believe woman are equal to men (worries me that I get this question). “How is the weather?” I live in Scotland - its always going to be raining :) "What is the katkity name about?" After a really interesting conversation with a fellow sub it just struck me I may be sending out the wrong message about animal stuff. Katkity is a nickname I have had forever (completely vanilla!). I wish everyone the best of luck, whatever they are looking for!
Minor update. :)
I love how much some kind people have taught me about kink. While I may never be into some of it, I understand it a lot more. Thank you to my friends on this site who have indulged my curiosity.
Just a quick thing, I am unlikely to respond to extremely short and vague messages and an incomplete profile. However a detailed profile and short message is fine or vice versa. Katkity x
