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Female Submissive, 28, Redding, California
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Male Dominant, 30, Ypsilanti, Michigan
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Female Submissive, 23, melb
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About kallistiCD
Hi!
I am a part-time girl (smooth). I am seeking a discreet part-time D/s relationship with a Dom Male. Why am I identifying as a sub trans instead of a sub man? Well, transgender is not a term that refers to a single diagnosis, lifestyle, or behavior. Instead it is an umbrella term that encompasses everything from intersexed to crossdressers to transexuals (and some in betweens). One does not have to be in transition to be a t-girl/MTF. I am a crossdresser. I dress en femme because my personality is comprised of both genders. I have recently discovered that social interactions as my female self allow me to come to terms and find peace & balance with my inner girl. When I am with a Man I find attractive, it is this inner girl who is attracted to him...not my Masculine self. This site does not differentiate the various types of transgendered...therefore it is logical to assume that in this context 'trans' is not limited by a single point along the spectrum.
I am open to different paradigms: 1950s housewife, Master/slave, Boss/secretary Daddy/daughter, etc. �My perfect Master would know that along with TPE, this girl will respond best to q balance of romance and humiliation.
I love: thigh highs, collars, sucking cock, dresses, lingerie,�
I am also interested in other MTF trans Women and girls for friendship and sisterhood. I have recently started dressing en femme in public, and would love guidance and advice.
Photos coming soon.
So I thought that I had included this earlier...but the reason for discretion (beyond professional ones) is that I am in a healthy marriage. She is supportive of this side of me and lets me explore it.
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Tips on 'Chatting'
It has taken awhile for me to post a journal entry. But an interesting mail exchange occurred today that could be instructive in approaching me. It started with receiving this message (i'll call him 'Lucas'):
LUCAS: hi there...
i saw your profile and i found it interesting, so i was wondering if you could be interested in talking a bit :)
Okay, so a little light on the details with no expectations other than possibly wanting to chat or exchange messages. So I see he is online and I go ahead and offer to chat; the request was promptly refused. I thought this was odd so I responded thusly:
ME: And I guess you changed your mind...
I can be introspective and can see how that is short and could be seen as curt. But it can also be seen as quizzical...I mean why would I try to contact you after being rebuffed? I honestly was trying to figure out what to do...do I message him? I mean he's Italian and kinda looks like Kylo Renn (a compliment since I am a HUGE Star Wars fangurl!). I took the time to look at his profile and interests before trying to chat with him...i'm interested and he seems to reciprocate.
This is the response I get back:
LUCAS: and i guess you don't realize that exchanging messages is much less invasive than a chat, when you're at work.
and yes, now that i noticed how you're prone to judge without knowing the situation, you're right, you made me change my mind. my compliments. don't forget to use your ignore list, enjoy your stay in mine and farewell.
I guess I dodged a bullet here. When meeting someone for the first time, I've found it very helpful to avoid jumping to conclusions. ESPECIALLY text only communication which does not afford the ability (unless you are RPing) to see body language or judge tone of voice...in other words you are completely devoid of nonverbal clues. You do not know the person on the otherside of the keyboard and as such not (yet) accustomed to their use of language. It is impossible for me to know, unless you tell me, that you are at work or with your wife & kids or at church or etc, etc. So be of good humor, assume the best, and TELL me how you want to be contacted.
So please; if you contact me afford me some missteps in the beginning as W/we learn to communicate with one another. Know that if I am communicating with you; I am affording you the same respect. :)
As for you Lucas, if you ever decide to look at my profile again...I will not be using my ignore list since I am not prone to snap judgements. :) |
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