I want to put this out front, I currently have a primary partner whom I have an egalitarian relationship with. I am also collared to another as well. That said, I am encouraged and allowed by both to seek out local play partners and friends in the lifestyle to expand my horizons and gain different perspectives. If you would like to speak to either of them, please let me know. They are more than happy to talk to my potential play partners.
Most of my experience comes from bottoming in heavy pain scenes, and bondage. There is no interest box for service, but that ranks highly up there as well. For me, service is how I show appreciation to a Top for the energy they put into scenes, and for the time they spent learning those wonderfully sadistic skills.
I draw a line between sex and play/service. While play and service are hot, I don't always feel a sexual attraction to the Top I'm playing with. Having both types of attractions is rare for me, but it does happen.
Registered for DO: Fusion from June 22-27, then TES Fest July 1-4. I think I'm going to need a couple of months to recover. :)
Happy b-day to me!
Finally settled on the house today. A whole month's worth of stress just washing away is a wonderful feeling. Can't wait to get moved in. :D
