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	I am not really using CM much anymore, I am spending more time on (CM keeps deleting the name of the other site, so I guess they dont want competition) the website starts with an F then E then T then life. and you can find me there under the same name. As a result I prob will not be checking messages more than a few times per month. best wishes everyone. I guess I was not clear. I am NOT looking for single Men. I am only interested in Woman, or maybe serving a Dom/Domme with his/her other girls. I am currently finishing up College, So I am not looking for anything perm right now, as I need to finish school first. Just looking to see what is out there right now, as I am not sure what I want. ***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects. You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Thanks for everyone’s input on Branding, you input and suggestions have been most helpful..

I have decided not to pursue branding at this point. I feel that if Tattoos produce better artwork than a brand can, so that will be the way to go for me.

Although I Just discovered Ear Pointing, and that looks way too cool not to look into further..

here is a great example

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Thoughts anyone?

Thanks again

So , I am thinking about Branding, anyone have any thoughts, or experences they could share?

I found this online and thought I would share it with anyone who might find it helpful

BDSM - the New Submissive's Guide to Male and Female Dominants to Avoid

Looking for Romance and Domination
By Bea Amor

In a previous articles I have given you types of male and female dominants you might find at a munch and what is good about each type. In this article I will be attempting to share those types of Dominants I would try to avoid. Remember that I am not telling you what you should be attracted to, but I am sharing several types of people that are not attractive to most submissives. If any of these types of Doms are what you are looking for, more power to you and I hope you have a great experience with each of them. The links to the articles I think you might find interesting on what types of dominants are out there are as follows:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/960680/bdsm_101_how_to_pick_the_perfect_female.html?cat=7 http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/960664/bdsm_101_how_to_pick_your_dominant.html?cat=7

Now we need to get serious my friends, as some people here would say. This is a serious matter and since this concerns the person that will be controlling your mind, body and heart, I would think it deserves a little bit more than just casual attention.

The Domineering Horn Dog:

This dominant will jump in expecting you to get naked and perform without even getting to know you. He or she will expect some things from you that some experienced dominants would never ask someone who has been accepted for training in the first few weeks. He or she will tell you to erase all your friends from your cell phone and your IM and to stop communicating with them all. He or she will also not allow you to talk to anyone about him or her or what you do when you are together. This person will take photos and videos of you in very compromising positions and might even use them to make some money for him or herself without your permission. This is also the type of person that would expect you to move in and give up your job without letting anyone know where you are. His or her kink is mostly sexual and he will not go where a lot of other sadists would go. He or she probably does not have the experience to do that effectively. This person will get upset with you if you are unhappy or lonely and will degrade you and make you feel like a worthless person, only there to be a sex toy for him or her and whoever else he or she chooses. Doesn't sound like fun does it? Sounds more like abuse than consensual BDSM to me and I know some people who are like this.

The Fixer Upper:

This person will generally be attracted to submissives with emotional issues or other personal issues that need to be fixed. This person is generally one of those that like to give advice and not accept it themselves. He or she will have the best intentions in the world, but will always find things to fix in anything that happens, causing the play side of things to dissipate into nothing. Once your issues are fixed, they might just move on and if you have too many issues, they will blame you for being unbalanced and making them miserable. The urge is there to fix things but the urge to take responsibility isn't that developed. This person will seem incredibly nice though and will spend hours talking to you. He or she might just become disenchanted with you when they realize that this is not what they want any more.

The Polygamist:

This person wants as many submissives as he or she can find. He or she is incredibly loving and assertive and you will fall in love with him or her. If you are not into polygamy then steer away from this. Even if you think you just want to serve this wonderful person and you will get used to being one of six slaves, do not fool yourself into short changing yourself. You have to be a very special person to do this and to love it. Someone with a scarcity consciousness should never indulge in a situation like this as there will never be enough love to compensate for the moments when he or she spends time with the other girls or guys that were all there before you. There are slaves that prefer this type of set up and for them this is heavenly. This dominant is someone that attracts me too, but I am still learning how to make a one on one relationship with one person work and this is not something I think I would even consider for a very long time.

The Aloof Master or Mistress:

This is not the type of dominant you want to enter into relationship to when you do not want to serve unconditionally and are looking for a romantic relationship. This person is all dominance and no romance. These dominants actually believe that love has no place in BDSM and will tell you that you are an object that they will use in any way they see fit. A slave is a slave and for many slaves this is exactly what they want. For someone who does not identify with slavery this will be hell even though the absolute dominance and self-confidence will push all those submissive buttons. Steer clear if you are into BDSM for fun and weekend play parties.

The Net Geek:

This guy or gal is only interested in online play and will never show their face. They absolutely get a kick out of seeing someone do whatever they ask for. Most of them are still teenagers and incredibly witty. They are chat experts and know exactly what to say when. Their webcams will not work ever and if it does, you will only see genitals and nothing else. They will ask you to do home work assignments and will sometimes even reply to those assignments with one line replies showing that they have read it. Rest assured that they would take your hard work and share it with all their friends for a good laugh. Your "One" will take your submission and allow others to make fun of it without you ever knowing it. Sometimes a whole group of them might even interact with you just for a laugh. Hopefully you will never experience this. Therefore I would suggest that you follow all the suggestions I made in my article on Internet safety and relationships.

The Pay Per Play Dominant:

These dominants expect you to give them tributes for the opportunity to play with them. They are not actual professional dominants, but they expect you to support them financially and will even demand an apartment at times with all the money they would need to live the good life. Women are more guilty of this than men and have male submissives paying for everything in their lives without really returning the favor - just the privilege of paying them to talk down at you should be enough. They also have stringent requirements for physical appearance etc and will make you feel special just because you have been accepted into their stable of slaves who support them monthly or weekly.

In conclusion:

Happy hunting my dearest submissive friend. Any assistance I can give is yours if you need it. Just contact me here and I will be there for you.

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