jimo3

I'm married, in a poly relationship to a submissive Bi woman. We meet and play with others together and separately.
I've been in the scene for many years both as a dominant and submissive.
I'm mostly interested in mild to stringent bondage, extended sensuous bondage teasing, sensory deprivation & overload. I love teasing orally until you're on the brink and holding you there until I'm ready for you to blast into orbit.
I love role-playing, ass play/dildo training, floggings, and other mild CP. I don't have a fetish as such for anything like corsets, latex, leather, heels, etc. but of course being the typical male I am visually oriented so I "love looking" -- gazing -- at women thus clad. And, corseted women are a turn on.
I've met more than a few "pushy" subs who top from the bottom or just get all "bratty" to get punished. You don't need to be naughty to get me to spank you. I don't need a reason. I only need to say get over my knee. Being a bit of a SAM isn't a deal breaker especially if it's concomitant with a warped sense of humor.
I think a safeword is both necessary as well as being sacrosanct. I hear it, I heed!
I'm really into relationships, getting to know my partner. I think that what we enjoy outside the scene is much more important than what we like in the scene. After all after the ropes come off, after the aftercare, you really need something to talk about besides "the scene." I love wining and dining Her, listening to some Mozart or Beethoven, getting to know Her, allowing her into my soul, and slowly letting myself be drawn into Her
silken web.
I have a quirky sense of humor. I suppose this comes from both my advanced age and a serious interest in Sci-fi. It was my Grandfather who instilled most of it in me as well as my interest in reading, classical music, camping, and the Great North of Michigan.

Blessed be, Jim