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The relationship whether it be play or ltr needs to be developed and nurtured with equal respect. One should not read a profile check off all the interests,meet then pull out the full box of toys. These things can come in due course, the first step is to find out who we are, what are our desires goals and especially limits, these are all things to know and understand before moving to the next level. Respecting your limits and not trample over them is important. Some wish to have their boundaries pushed but that needs to be agreed upon by all prior to the scene.Lastly, laugh a little every day.

I have always believed that one should respect limitations of others. In your profile you may click on yes I am curious,  I might be more into it and ready to tread into that area than you are.  Reality sets in when you discuss it first and if the activity is an of interest to both then set a limit or safe word and do not go beyond that level as she may find that this is not for her.


Online one can never be too careful. Reading profiles there were some that the person may have signed up and a short time later they have not been on line for several years. You have to wonder why and hope they are ok. 


Fast times and quick meetups are not always good. You really need time to develop some common ground and expectations and some meetings in a public setting. Early last year I messaged with someone, two exchanges and she wanted to meet near her house and gave me specific toys to bring.  It is situations like this where neither one truly knows the others intentions. Anyone with access to a smart phone or computer, (even in prison) could greatly misrepresent themselves. Face to face we can get a better picture and you will know he is not still living with his mother.

Play safe, have fun and enjoy.


Jumping off the soap box, on the lighter side, it is time to get Billy back at the academy awards.